Draft LIFE SKILLS JEEVAN KAUSHAL 17 03 2021
Draft LIFE SKILLS JEEVAN KAUSHAL 17 03 2021
Facilitators' Guidelines
Communication
Skills
Professional Skills
Life Skills
(Jeevan Kaushal)
Facilitators'
Guidelines
Leadership &
Management
Skills
Universal Human
Values
S T R I D E
July, 2019
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Note to Prospective Facilitators
Life is the greatest teacher but to learn from life you require skills, hence this project is called Life
Skills (Jeevan Kaushal).
Skills form part of essential learning systems, no matter where you are and what you propose to do.
Life Skills are skills that we learn and teach throughout life - whether at home, at school, at college,
at the university, at work, or at play. Some skills help us live better, learn better to live better. These
skills are for and from life.
To put it simply, to present Life Skills as a curricular design is to situate, systematize, consolidate
and stimulate the process of teaching, learning and absorbing the most fundamental skills at the
tertiary education level. This curriculum is meant to help us do better at what we choose to do
with them. Before dealing with any particular skill or skill set, it is necessary for facilitators to see
(i) different skills for what they are; (ii) how they are presented in different courses and modules
therein; and (iii) appreciate their inter-relatedness. In our country college and university education
often seem to alienate the students as they feel diffident in matters of communication, management,
leadership, professional and personal choices. Most students fail to connect education with their
social life and self-evaluation. Life Skills (Jeevan Kaushal) may help them address some of the most
knotty situations in life.
Life skills, as defined by World Health Organization (WHO) are “the abilities for adaptive and
positive behavior that enable the individuals to deal effectively with the demands and challenges
of everyday life”. The UNICEF has also defined life skills as “a behavior change or behavior
development approach designed to address a balance of three areas: Knowledge, Attitudes and
Skills”. In other words, life skills are the personal competencies that help an individual to deal with
challenges of life effectively and lead life successfully and satisfactorily and thereby realize his/her
infinite potential as a human being.
Life skills include psychosocial competencies and interpersonal skills that help human beings make
informed decision, solve problems, think critically and creatively, communicate effectively, build
healthy interpersonal relationships, empathize with others, and manage their lives in a healthy and
productive manner.
Life skills are considered in three basic categories that complement, supplement and reinforce each
other: Social or Interpersonal skills (Communication, Assertiveness, Cooperation, and Empathy),
Creative/Thinking skills (Problem Solving, Critical, Creative, Decision making, and self awareness),
and Emotional skills (Managing Stress, Emotions and resisting Peer Pressure).
The WHO has identified ten core life skills that in brief include Self-Awareness, Empathy,
Critical Thinking, Creative Thinking, Decision Making, Problem Solving, Interpersonal
Skills, Effective Communication, Coping with Stress, and Managing Emotions (For details
please see, “Life Skills Education for Children and Adolescent in Schools”, Programme on Mental
Health, World Health Organization, Geneva, 1997)
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Life skills development is a life-long process that helps individuals grow and mature; build
confidence in one’s decisions taken on the basis of adequate information and thought, and discover
sources of strength within and outside. It is noteworthy that, from times immemorial, every culture
and society has invested in educating and empowering its younger generation to lead fulfilling and
responsible lives.
The life skills programme, as seen from the above description of life skills, is often considered in
three broad categories: Communication skills, Management skills and Leadership skills. These
skills are necessary for life but that is not the end of all. They can make a person successful but
certainly not great beings and great future leaders. All successful people are not great people, and all
great people are not necessarily materially successful. But only those successful become great people
whose lives are value based. The communication, management and leadership skills are necessary
but incomplete in itself if they are unattended by universal values. Hence, the Course in ‘Universal
Human Values’ is added.
Skills come and evolve with life. Most skills are organically absorbed and socially disseminated. It
is possible, however, to absorb and use the skills we learn or inherit more effectively. These skills
evolve with us organically, as part of our life and can be picked up and improved at every stage of
life. The teacher and the taught are not always divided by expertise and rank they are co-sharers
of a system and pedagogy that is at once interactive and participatory. So we decided to call this
booklet a Facilitators’ Guidelines.
Every prospective facilitator is a stakeholder in this Jeevan Kaushal project, so is every learner.
Everyone will bring a lot to the modalities, illustrations, exercises and projects and customize them
according to their need and situation. The Guidelines will hopefully keep growing organically with
the facilitator and the learner, and make facilitating a rewarding experience.
The facilitators can share their feedback while transacting the modules. Their valuable feedback
will help us in modifying the Guidelines. The feedback can be provided on the content, web links,
videos, activities, and assessment in each module.
The Note to Prospective Facilitators was originally prepared by (Late) Prof. Avadhesh Kumar Singh
(Ex-Chairman of the Committee) and Prof. Bijay K Danta (Coordinator of the Committee). Only
few changes were done by me.
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Feedback
The UGC has developed this Facilitators’ Guidelines for imparting Life Skills (Jeevan Kaushal) to
the students at Higher Education. It is open for inviting your feedback on its content, activities,
assessment, web links and videos link. You are requested to give your valuable feedback on the
following while going through the Guidelines. Your feedback will contribute in making the
Guidelines for users.
Expected Outcomes:
The learners at the end of this module shall be able to:
• Use the skill of listening actively.
• Utilize active listening in the communication.
Module Outlines:
1.1 Techniques of Effective Listening
1.2 Listening and Comprehension
1.3 Probing Questions
1.4 Barriers to Listening
Can you make out what the politician is likely to say in the next ten or
twenty minutes?
How is that you know what is the politician is finally going to say?
Is it because you can predict the content from the politician’s profession?
What other criteria or factors can you think of to predict content in
different situations?
ii. Listening for the gist:
Imagine a situation where your local bank manager is speaking on ‘Saving Better,
Living Better’.
Now how do you think she’ll finish her speech?
You would be thinking, as she begins speaking, that she will speak on ways to save
effectively and invite students to save regularly, whatever the amount.
But then she starts speaking about saving time, saving energy, saving space, saving
water, saving energy, saving oil and saving resources. You cannot get all the points at
once, but you do make mental notes on the larger meaning of saving in our lives, and
thank yourself for not missing out on the lecture. You do not get the details of each
point, but you make connections by quickly linking the rough outlines or even the
rough content.
Can you think of other words that convey the meaning of the gist?
What are the different ways of getting the gist?
Can you think of content words?
Does the gist help you link or understand the details?
Do you find speakers repeating certain words or their equivalents?
Do you listen to everything or do you follow the gist(s) and fill in the details
afterwards?
iii. Detecting signposts: As a listener, detecting turning points, resting points, pauses,
etc. help you get the drift of a speech, however long or short.
Do you watch out for traffic signals and directs while travelling?
Do they say TURN LEFT from the traffic, or SCHOOL AHEAD or
BUMPS Ahead?
Suppose a speaker begins by saying, ‘I will talk to you today about
the EIGHT wonders of the world or about SEVEN types of traffic
violations’.
Do you not recall or look for 1, 2, 3, 4, etc.?
These are good indicators while listening. These do not fill you out on the details, but
they help you get the direction.
Can you think of other ways of describing signposts while listening?
Do traffic turnings help you link signposts to speeches?
Apart from first, second, third, fourth, etc., have you come across other
signposting devices?
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You see that the holiness of the holy rivers depends equally on where and how they
originate and how and where they meet the ocean. In other words, while listening to
the lecture, you are worried about missing out on the details.
Here gist and signposts do not help you much. You want to know the different aspects
of a river’s journey in detail. You want information on a river’s length, the names and
number of cities and towns on her banks, the soil types of the areas it irrigates, the
kings and communities in history that gave the river its power, and so on.
Listening is about details but points are important. Why?
Points alone are not enough. Why?
Details help you consolidate your knowledge and information base.
How?
But do details ultimately help you understand everything?
Who uses signposts more: listener or speaker?
iv. Listening for details: Suppose a teacher begins by saying that she will talk about the
holy rivers of India. The students would wish to know why they are called holy and
who called them holy. They would also want to know how people celebrate the holy
rivers.
The facilitator will mark these with care and ask the students questions relating to
these.
v. Inferring meaning: We listen to people, talks, advice, speeches, stories, songs & music
etc. Is it for the key words or the points or the details? Finally a song on the rivers of
India may be about saving water and the environment. In that case, details regarding
the holy cities and temples on particular river banks, the kings who constructed them,
irrigation patterns in the river basin, etc. are necessary but the ultimate meaning is
LOVE for the ENVIRONMENT.
Ask the students to do a story on a topic of their choice that cover all the qualities
of good listening. Both facilitator and participants can think of answers to the
following.
Can you (both individually and as a group) follow up each of these
techniques by using day-to-day examples?
What, according to you, are five essential qualities of a good listener?
Activity
• Give the learners a set of questions. Let them find the answers to the questions by listening
to the comprehension (a passage or a talk or a speech from YouTube), you present. Each
learner will take down the answers and once completed, they shall discuss the answers in
their group. This activity will have a dual effect, as it will promote active listening and team
work. The groups will then present their answers to the whole class.
• The questions should span across the difficulty level, in order to help each learner to remain
motivated.
Fake attention: Can you think of listener’s fake attention and a speaker’s fake
attention to look interested?
Emotions: Can you relate this to other barriers?
Noise: Can you relate this to other barriers?
Fear: Can you relate this to other barriers listed here? Which of the barriers
comes close to this one?
Judgments: Can you relate this to other barriers listed here? Which of the barriers
comes close to this one?
Closed mind: Who is responsible for this?
Sudden change of topic: Who is responsible for this?
Selective Listening: Can you relate this to other barriers listed here? Which of the
barriers comes close to this one?
Day dreaming: Can you relate this to other barriers listed here? Which of the
barriers comes close to this one?
Jumping into advice: Is it a listener’s problem or a speaker’s problem?
Put these questions to students depending on what you want to highlight. You may change
the order of the questions, if that is useful.
Can you classify these barriers as social, psychological, personal or cultural?
Can you grade the barriers bother you, giving the lowest mark to the one that
bothers you most?
Student Project
After the discussion, you may give following tasks to students.
Listen to a speech of any eminent leader or personality or anybody and write down the main
points while listening. Listen the same speech after a week and note the difference between the
first listening and the second.
What new ideas and words have you added?
What are the words or ideas that you cancel out as not important and why?
What makes you a better listener?
Assessment
1. Written Evaluation.
2. Testing of listening is crucial and hence the goal of the assessment needs to be extremely clear.
The learners will be tested on their listening skills in which the other skills such as speaking
and writing act as aids. Audio material can be used to check listening comprehension. A set of
questions can be asked on the passage that was used for listening.
3. Peer evaluation and self evaluation during participating in activities can be used for
assessment. A check list or rating scale on effective listening skills can be prepared by the
facilitator with the help of students.
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References:
1. https://www.britishcouncil.org/voices-magazine/five-essential-listening-skills-english-learners
2. https://www.mosaicprojects.com.au/WhitePapers/WP1012_Active_Listening.pdf
3. https://www.skillsyouneed.com/ips/ineffective-listening.html
4. https://www.brighthubpm.com/resource-management/122339-effective-listening-10-
barriers-and-how-to-overcome-them/
Video References:
1. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m_tbFlbRpK8
2. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gwPMHbbueZI
3. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o6JGi2voyDM
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Expected Outcomes:
The learners at the end of this module shall be able to:
• Speak confidently.
• Use language to communicate their thoughts and ideas clearly.
Module Outlines:
2.1 Pronunciation
2.2 Enunciation
2.3 Vocabulary
2.4 Fluency
2.5 Common Errors
2.1 Pronunciation
In any language, the way in which a word is pronounced (pronunciation) is extremely
crucial, as the understanding of the listener depends on the same. If a speaker uses the wrong
pronunciation, the listener gets to hear and understand something completely different to
what the speaker is trying to convey. This is a barrier to communication and understanding,
which needs to be avoided.
The learners should be given examples of how wrong pronunciations can mislead.
• You may find people sleeping on the road.
• You may find people slipping on the road.
• May I borrow your pain please?
• May I borrow your pen please?
• I expect a fool day’s salary for this job.
• I expect a full day’s salary for this job.
Ask students to
Think of more such similar sounding words that can cause difficulties.
Identify ten words that are mispronounced by the people they know.
Ask students to keep following steps in mind while learning pronunciation while watching
following videos on improving pronunciation:
• International Phonetic Alphabet
• Listening
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2.2 Enunciation
Enunciation is the act of pronouncing words. Moving together with pronunciation;
enunciation helps to utter words distinctively. This clarity helps listeners clearly identify
words and understand the meaning of what is being said.
Activity will be conducted in order to practice proper pronunciation and enunciation of
words, such as tongue twisters: “She sells sea shells on the sea shore.”
Ask the students to show or dramatize how to enunciate, using the pictures provided on
https://www.wikihow.com/Enunciate
As you now know pronunciation is the act of simply producing the sound of the vowels
and consonants of a word without emphasis (Merriam-Webster Dictionary (Unabridged).
Enunciation is being able to identify and produce the specific sound of the vowels and
consonants properly.
Ask the students to check the meaning of accent and intonation. Pronounce a few words
properly with proper accents to show how accents work differently in individual words and
in a cluster.
[Source:https://english.stackexchange.com/questions/46319/whats-the-difference-between-
pronunciation-and-enunciation]
How intonation works?
The students may be asked to say ‘Thank you’ and then say ‘Thank you, sir!’
Now ask them
Where is the stress in the first sentence?
Where is the stress in the second sentence?
Activity
Ask students to watch a short video of a news cast for the differently-able persons. Does the
newsreader look like pronouncing or enunciating?
2.3 Vocabulary
Vocabulary is defined as the knowledge of words and their meaning. As you can see vocabulary
is essential in every language to perform the basic skills of Listening, Speaking, Reading, and
Writing. The use of the right word can help change the very notion of the sentence. Similarly,
a wrong word can ruin a sentence. Hence, vocabulary building is a skill that should be taken
serious and should be a part of one’s everyday life.
How do you learn new words?
Where do you see new words?
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New words can be learnt through everyday activities that we do but with a little effort such as
listening to conversations, watching the news, reading newspapers, watching movies, reading
books, and even going through road signs.
Activity
Write down the new words you have learnt in next week while listening or seeing during
various activities.
Check the dictionary (print or digital) for their meaning and pronunciation.
Be very clear about the message you want to communicate. That is your goal.
Don’t worry about making mistakes.
Your goal is to communicate what you want to say.
Do you know how to practice language at home with a speaking game?
‘Speak for one minute without stopping about ...’ [Show a video game or a film clip without
any sound and make the student talk in English or the language of his/her choice for
one minute about the video game or film clip without stopping. Gradually increase the
duration].
How useful are expressions like ‘Er’ or ‘Erm’ to fill the gaps while you are thinking
about what to say?
Observe your friends and neighbours and identify the fillers they use while
thinking about what to say.
What are the communication strategies you can think of to make your English
sound more natural?
Show the following videos on fluency or videos of fluent speakers to students:
https://kosovo.britishcouncil.org/en/exam/ielts/prepare/videos/speaking-fluency-and-
coherence
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8H-WeY9GSf8
https://www.britishcouncil.ae/en/exam/ielts/courses-resources/videos/fluency-coherence
Activity
Encourage students to bring in videos of their talks and speeches that show how fluent they are.
Repeat the exercise and help them see where they fumble.
Do not criticize your students.
Make them believe that they can be effective speakers.
Motivation is stronger than criticism in language teaching.
Assessment
Conduct individual speaking assessments for the learners.
1. Test and mark them for each of the sections.
2. To ensure that your students do not lose motivation, experiment by awarding maximum
marks for maximum mistakes.
3. The student who secures the lowest marks in error tests is the best.
References:
1. https://www.strategiesinlanguagelearning.com/how-to-improve-english-pronunciation/
2. http://giftarist.expertscolumn.com/article/speech-delivery-importance-enunciation-and-
pronunciation
3. https://www.wikihow.com/Enunciate
4. https://englishforeveryone.org/PDFs/Homonyms,%20Homographs,%20Homophones.pdf
5. https://learnenglishteens.britishcouncil.org/exams/speaking-exams/fluency
6. https://www.learnpick.in/blog/8-common-mistakes-make-speaking-english
7. https://www.fluentu.com/blog/english/common-mistakes-in-english/
Video References:
1. https://kosovo.britishcouncil.org/en/exam/ielts/prepare/videos/speaking-fluency-and-
coherence
2. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8H-WeY9GSf8
3. https://www.britishcouncil.ae/en/exam/ielts/courses-resources/videos/fluency-coherence
4. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KmoJ-YpvxqQ
5. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n4NVPg2kHv4
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iii) Identify the context of the text: This section can be dealt by giving examples from
https://literarydevices.net/context/
iv) Identify the concepts mentioned: On the basis of above videos identify the concepts
mentioned in each video.
Assessment
1. Written Evaluation.
2. Reading tests should be conducted for learners on comprehension passages where each of
the points discussed in the module needs to be identified by the students.
References:
1. https://www.britishcouncil.in/
2. https://literarydevices.net/context/
3. https://courses.lumenlearning.com/waymaker-level3-english/chapter/text-inductive-
reasoning/
4. http://www.criticalreading.com/interpretation.htm
5. http://www.criticalreading.com/restatement.htm
6. http://www.criticalreading.com/description.htm
Video References:
1. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fOYtzoiI2XI
2. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VrD9-In6C1o
3. https://literarydevices.net/context/
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Expected Outcomes:
The learners at the end of this module shall be able to:
• Improve their writing skills.
• Use effective strategies of writing in different modes of writing.
Module Outlines:
4.1 The Writing Process
4.2 Effective Writing Strategies
4.3 Different Modes of Writing
keep your sentences short. Start every sentence with the subject, follow closely with
the verb, and end with the object.
iii. Provide background information: When writing on any topic, it is essential to get
information on it and must begin with background information.
iv. Effectively argue the claim: As mentioned in the first point regarding claims, it is
necessary to argue effectively to explain your points so as to develop the body of the
essay or any other persuasive writing that has been undertaken.
v. Provide evidence for the claims: Now, you need to find some data to support your
claim which is authentic.
vi. Use examples to explain concepts: No write up is effective if you do not provide
concrete examples to build up your points that you have mentioned.
vii. Follow convention: Conventions include spelling, punctuation, capitalization,
grammar, and sentence structure. You should apply spelling rules correctly. Use correct
punctuation to smoothly guide the reader through the article.
viii. Be properly sequenced: Sequencing in writing is absolutely essential so that idea and
content follow a logical pattern.
ix. Use proper signposting techniques: Signposts are words or phrases that help articulate
the structure of a piece of writing and ensure that readers don’t get lost. Signposting will
flag the most important parts of an argument, signal transitions, and clarify the stakes of
an argument.
x. Be well structured: In order to present your ideas impressively in the article you have
to follow a well structured format which will cover the following points-
• Well-knit logical sequence.
• Narrative sequence.
• Category groupings.
4.3 Different Modes of Writing
There are different modes of writing like writing Email; proposal writing for Higher Studies;
and recording the proceedings of meetings. Other mode of writing relevant for learners
include preparing job application; reports; and essay.
I. Email writing: The use of electronic mail writing these days are for more semi-formal
and formal purposes (e.g. submitting a resume, asking your college instructor for some
clarifications, making a business transaction) than casual purposes (e.g. chatting with a
friend). But before writing you should have knowledge of using computer and internet.
There are 3 common types of Emails:
• A Personal Email – Introducing yourself for the first time
• A Semi-Formal Email – Writing to request an appointment or meeting
• A Formal Email – Writing about a problem with a product
General Tips for Writing Emails in English: Following are few tips for you, if writing email
for the first thing:
i. Be sure an email is necessary: If you’ve decided that sending an email is really the best
option to use in addressing the query or issue to the concerned party then write your
email and click “send”. You may also see article writings.
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ii. Use separate business and personal email address: Use your work email for work
matters and personal email address for personal matters. Having a work email can look
and sound more professional. You may also see memo writings.
iii. Be clear, brief and polite: Keep the content of the message short, simple and concise
enough so that they may be able to understand the gist of the letter without straining
so much effort and time. You may also see summary writings.
iv. Be respectful and courteous while writing emails: Keep in mind that you have to be
respectful and courteous to the one you are sending that letter to.
v. Use short sentences: Keep the sentences simple and easy to read in order to keep your
thoughts cohesive and understandable. You may also see minutes writings.
vi. Be careful with “forward” and “reply to all”: Use forward button in order to save
time and effort. But make sure that the content of the forwarded message is meant for
that specific person. The same applies for the “reply to all” option. You may also see
narrative writings.
vii. Read your email personally before sending it: Take time to proofread the letter to
ensure correctness of grammar and the thoughts are coherent enough for your letter to
be organized and understandable.
viii. Double-check email addresses for all recipients: Make sure that the recipient’s email
address is correct.
Activity
Students visit following link and learn more about writing email. They can practice writing
different types of email (individually or in small group) and share with each other.
https://www.examples.com/education/email-writing-examples.html
II. Proposal writing for Higher Studies: Students may be asked to visit following link
and prepare detailed answers for the questions put up while preparing proposal for
higher studies:
www.sciedupress.com/ijheInternationalJournalofHigherEducationVol.5,No.2;2016
What is a Higher Degree Research (HDR) Proposal?
What Purposes Does the Research Proposal Serve?
What Does a Good HDR Research Proposal Look Like?
Activity
Students can prepare an exemplar HDR proposal, individually or in small groups and discuss in
front of the class. The facilitator and peers can give their suggestions.
Activity
Each student may select a topic and write essay considering above three points.
Assessment
1. Written evaluation.
2. Assessment can be done on the activities organised during transaction by the facilitator, self
and peers.
References:
1. Bailey, Stephen, Academic Writing: A handbook for International Students, 2010 Routledge
2. Hogue, Ann, First Steps in Academic Writing, 1995 Person Logman.
3. Taylor, Shirely, Communication for Business, 2006, New Delhi: Pearson Education.
Web References:
1. https://learnenglishteens.britishcouncil.org/skills/writing
2. http ://www.sciedu.ca/journal/index.php/ijhe/article/view/9190
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Expected Outcomes:
The learners at the end of this module shall be able to:
• Describe the usefulness of Digital Literacy.
• Use Digital Literacy in their professional life for communication.
Module Outlines:
5.1 Role of Digital Literacy in Professional Life
5.2 Trends and Opportunities in Using Digital Technology in Workplace
5.3 Internet Basics
5.4 Introduction to MS Office Tools
i. Paint
ii. Office
iii. Excel
iv. Power point
Play following YouTube video or any of the videos on the role of digital literacy
in professional life.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ytWuiGXJxhE
Divide the class into groups of four or five and ask each group to make a short
video to showcase any aspect of digital literacy.
to the Internet, you can access and view websites using a type of application called a web
browser. Just keep in mind that the web browser itself is not the Internet; it only displays
websites that are stored on the Internet.
You need to understand how to:
• Identify and use key browser functions.
• Understand basic internet terminology.
• Access and navigate websites.
• Use a search engine.
Refer to this video for detailed information-
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AuFD7BHBgcw
The program uses slides to convey information rich in multimedia and is used to create
complex business presentations, simple educational outlines and much more.
Refer to the video - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zv3XMBb3V6A
To understand assessment on MS Office the student can see the following video link
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uK4DkFBPQnk
Assessment
1. Written evaluation.
2. Assignments may be given to students on use of MS Office tools. The same be demonstrated
on computer by students and evaluation may be done.
3. Assessment can be done on the activities organised during transaction by the facilitator, self
and peers.
References:
1. Shilpa Sablok Bhardwaj (2018). Computer Applications for Class 9 MS Office Blueprint
Education (Contributor)
2. David Pogu (2019).Windows Update: The Missing Manual: The Book That Should Have
Been in the Box 1st Edition
Web References:
1. https://www.edweek.org/ew/articles/2016/11/09/what-is-digital-literacy.html
2. https://www.teachthought.com/literacy/the-definition-of-digital-literacy/
3. https://mashandco.tv/en/the-importance-of-digital-literacy/
4. http://purposefultechnology.weebly.com/why-is-digital-literacy-important.html
5. https://insights.humancapital.aon.com/talent-assessment-blog/digital-literacy-its-importance-
and-impact-on-your-life-and-your-career
6. https://www.cmswire.com/digital-workplace/10-trends-that-will-shape-the-digital-workplace-
in-2019/
7. https://www.officespacesoftware.com/blog/workplace-trends-and-new-technologies-for-2019
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Objectives:
The objectives of the module are to help learners
• Describe social media.
• Know it’s usefulness in communication.
Expected Outcomes:
The learners at the end of this module shall be able to
• Know the effectiveness of social media in communication.
• Use social media to communicate effectively.
Module Outlines:
6.1 Introduction to Social Media Websites
6.2 Advantages of Social Media
6.3 Ethics and Etiquettes of Social Media
6.4 How to Use Google Search Better
6.5 Effective Ways of Using Social Media
6.6 Introduction to Digital Marketing
Activity
Students may be asked to prepare write up on ethics and etiquettes of social media in small
groups. Same can be presented and discussed in the whole class.
Activity
Ask the students to make a list of the top 10 things they use Google search for. Then they
can be asked to rate the same list on priority basis.
Ask students to demonstrate how to use Google search better.
They can also see this video:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R0DQfwc72PM
This shall give an insight into how the students work with the social media and its by-products.
Assessment
1. Written Evaluation.
2. Assessment can be done on the activities organised during transaction by the facilitator, self
and peers.
References:
1. https://www.lyfemarketing.com/blog/how-digital-marketing-works/
2. https://www.quora.com/How-does-digital-marketing-work
3. https://blog.hubspot.com/marketing/what-is-digital-marketing
4. https://www.jbcnschool.edu.in/blog/how-to-use-social-media-effectively-for-students/
5. https://www.compukol.com/how-to-use-social-media-effectively/
6. https://www.lifehack.org/articles/technology/20-tips-use-google-search-efficiently.html
7. https://www.quora.com/What-are-the-advantages-and-disadvantages-of-social-media-1
8. https://www.nibusinessinfo.co.uk/content/advantages-and-disadvantages-using-social-media
9. https://www.virtualsocialmedia.com/an-introduction-to-social-networking-social-
networking-services/
10. https://www.techopedia.com/definition/4956/social-networking-site-sns
11. https://www.usf.edu/ucm/marketing/intro-social-media.aspx
Video References:
1. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b-gwbVJqi9Y
2. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z_KspIX1oXU
3. https://www.sas.com › SAS Insights › Marketing Insights
4. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CpdBv8e6hKo
5. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aTw1FTXP2SM
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Source: https://www.entrepreneur.com/article/230136
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Once the learners have responded, get them to understand what NVC is about.
According to Richard Nordquist, nonverbal communication is the process of sending
and receiving messages without using words, either spoken or written, also called manual
language. Similar to the way that italicizing emphasizes written language, nonverbal behavior
may emphasize parts of a verbal message.
The term nonverbal communication was introduced in 1956 by psychiatrist Jurgen Ruesch
and author Weldon Kees in the book “Nonverbal Communication: Notes on the Visual
Perception of Human Relations.”
Nonverbal messages have been recognized for centuries as a critical aspect of communication.
For instance, in “The Advancement of Learning” (1605), Francis Bacon observed that “the
lineaments of the body do disclose the disposition and inclination of the mind in general,
but the motions of the countenance and parts do ... further, disclose the present humour and
state of the mind and will.”
ii. Vocalic or paralanguage that includes volume, rate, pitch, and timbre
sounds that not words [tchatcha; umhmumhm; ishhhh; uhhhh;
dhukdhukudhudhuku]
iii. Personal appearance (growing a beard; getting tonsured; wearing bindi)
iv. Our physical environment and the artifacts or objects that compose it (the national
flag flying at half mast; painting one’s house in a particular colour; cutting off the grass
from the front porch)
v. Proxemics or personal space (sitting very close to somebody; sitting away from somebody)
vi. Haptics or touch (shaking hands, rubbing somebody’s back; hugging).
vii. Chronemics or time
Ask the students to offer brief explanations with illustrations.
Why does an office boss come late to all meetings?
Why do you find clocks everywhere in some buildings?
Can you add signs or emblems that suggest time?
Communication is not only about speaking and writing but it is also about gestures,
postures, tones, expressions and all that nonverbal communication encompasses.
NVC can include the following:
Touch; glance; eye contact (gaze); volume; vocal nuance; proximity; gestures; facial
expression; pause (silence); intonation; dress; posture; smell; word choice and syntax;
sounds (paralanguage).
Activity
Ask students to show how NVC can work more than words in some situations. This may be
supported by a short mono-acting.
https://www.lifemasterygym.com/blog/power-of-non-verbal-communication
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vyrGNZ4Lzrw
ii. Closed Body Language: People with closed personalities are the ones with hidden
motives. They tend to cross their arms, cross their legs, keep hands close to their body
while speaking, and a one-tone voice. Examples can be-
o Crossing of Arms: This stance gives the impression that you have already
taken your decision and you are going to defend it no matter what. It’s
hostile and discourages discussion.
o Crossing of Legs When Seated: Putting one leg over the other leg’s knee
is both a defensive and an aggressive message. It tells the person talking to
you does not want to waste time explaining his points.
o Arms in Front of Body: It is normally a sign of nervousness and can
be seen in people who are either aspirant in an interview or first-time
employee on their first day.
o Crossing of Legs in Standing: It could either mean a relaxed frame of
mind or an interest to have a conversation on a topic. People crossing legs
while standing like to share their knowledge on a particular subject.
The facilitator demonstrates the Open and Closed body language movements and learners
may note down their observations.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FU0DkL184_4
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qRnwdWXbwDY
7.3.2 Eye Contact and Facial Expression
Eye contact, also known as oculesics, and facial expression are important aspects of
communicating with an audience, providing important social and emotional information.
The eyes can indicate interest, attention, and involvement with audience members, while
failure to make eye contact can be interpreted as disinterest.
The face as a whole indicates much about human moods. Specific emotional states, such as
happiness or sadness, are expressed through a smile or a frown, respectively.
Following are seven universally recognized emotions shown through facial expressions:
Fear; Anger; Surprise; Contempt; Disgust; Happiness; Sadness
Activity
Students may watch following video in the class:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1zs-DRBWLmE
Few learners may illustrate facial expressions (Fear, Anger, Surprise, Disgust, Happiness, and
Sadness). Other students may be asked to recognize and interpret the meaning and importance
of facial expression in NVC over the verbal communication.
Hand gestures can help you point to people and things in your surroundings (e.g. pointing
at an object while you say “look at that”)
Hand gestures can help you add emphasis and structure when you talk (e.g. showing numbers
when you count, “1, 2, 3…”)
Hand gestures give clues about your emotional state. These gestures are not always connected
to what you’re saying (e.g. are you confident? are you lying?, are you anxious?)
Clear your throat: Avoid compulsively clearing your throat as it shows nervousness.
Have a glass of water available during the interview if you tend to get a dry mouth.
And be proactive by using a throat lozenge or having warm tea with honey before
heading into the interview room or formal meeting.
Assessment
1. Written Evaluation.
2. Assessment can be done during activities organised during transaction by the facilitator, self
and peers.
3. An individual mock interview session can be used as an assessment tool for nonverbal
communication.
References:
1. https://www.thoughtco.com/what-is-nonverbal-communication-1691351
2. https://www.skillsyouneed.com/ips/nonverbal-communication.html
3. https://www.andrews.edu/~tidwell/bsad560/NonVerbal.html
4. https://artofeloquence.com/pages/the-importance-of-body-language
5. https://www.tutorialspoint.com/body_language/body_language_open_closed.htm#
6. https://study.com/academy/lesson/facial-expressions-in-nonverbal-communication-
importance-lesson-quiz.html
7. https://www.sophia.org/tutorials/eye-contact-and-facial-expression
8. https://socialtriggers.com/21-hand-gestures-for-powerful-communication/
9. https://www.gqrgm.com/interview-dos-donts-importance-nonverbal-communication/
Video References:
1. https://www.lifemasterygym.com/blog/power-of-non-verbal-communication
2. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vyrGNZ4Lzrw
3. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FU0DkL184_4
4. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qRnwdWXbwDY
5. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1zs-DRBWLmE
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Objectives:
The objectives of the module are to help learners
• Describe the importance of resume.
• Identify essential components of a good resume while preparing his/her resume.
• Identify common errors people make in preparing resume.
Expected Outcomes:
The learners at the end of this module shall be able to:
• Prepare her/his good resume considering all essential components without making any
error.
Module Outlines:
8.1 Resume Skills-Preparation and Presentation
8.1.1 Introduction of Resume and Related Terms
8.1.2 Importance of Preparing a Good Resume
8.1.3 Difference between a CV, Resume and Bio data
8.1.4 Essential Components of a Good Resume
8.2 Resume Skills: Common Errors
8.2.1 Common Errors
8.2.2 Guidelines for Resume Preparation
8.1 Resume Skills-Preparation and Presentation
Twenty students passed with ‘A’ grade from a renowned professional institution. They
applied for jobs in different companies. Out of them only 8 students got the desired job.
Do you know the reason for rejection of other students by the employers?
The reason was: Their resume or CV was neither appropriate for the job nor impressive
for the employers. Preparing resume or CV is a skill and an art. Let us know about what is
resume and other terms used world over like curriculum vitae (CV) and bio data.
8.1.1 Introduction of Resume and Related Terms
i) Resume: Resume is a French word meaning “summary”. A resume is ideally a summary
of one’s education, skills and employment when applying for a job or new job. A resume
does not list out all the details of a profile, but only some specific skills customized to
the target job profile. It thus, is usually 1 or 2 pages long. A resume is usually written
in the third person to give it an objective and formal tone.
ii) Curriculum Vitae (CV): Curriculum Vitae is a Latin word meaning “course of
life”. It is more detailed than a resume, generally 2 to 3 pages, or even longer as per
the requirement. A CV lists out every skill, all the jobs and positions held, degrees,
professional affiliations the applicant has acquired, and in chronological order. A CV is
a detailed document highlighting professional and academic history of an individual.
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CVs typically include information like work experience, achievements and awards,
scholarships or grants earned by the candidate, course work, research projects and
publications of the work. A CV is used to highlight the general talent of the candidate
rather than specific skills for a specific position.
iii) Bio data: Bio Data is the short form for Biographical Data and is an archaic terminology
for Resume or CV. In a bio data, the focus is on personal particulars like date of birth,
gender, religion, race, nationality, residence, marital status, and the like. A chronological
listing of education and experience comes after that.
8.1.2 Importance of Preparing a Good Resume
Question: Why do we need to prepare a good resume or CV?
A resume is a mirror reflection of a person’s/candidate’s pursuits.
The employers/recruiters require the aspiring candidates to submit a resume in order to be
considered for the position. Resumes are first used as a way to weed out unlikely candidates.
Such resumes may be with errors, spelling errors, appearance, incomplete details etc.
Employers/recruiters look into resumes that are perfect or near perfect fit for the advertised
opening. Further the resumes are scrutinized to shortlist candidates for interview on the basis
of education, additional training, community involvement, life experiences and anything
else that might indicate the suitability of the candidate for the advertised opening. Therefore,
preparing an impressive resume is vital.
8.1.3 Difference between a CV, Resume and Bio data
A CV and resume are similar in that they’re both documents that summarize candidate’s
professional history, education, skills and achievements. Sometimes both documents are
provided to the employer for consideration for an open position.
It is important to note that in the United States and most of Europe, resumes and CVs are
not interchangeable. There are a few exceptions. In India, South Africa and Australia, the
terms CV and resume are interchangeable. The term bio-data is mostly used in India, and is
usually used while applying for government jobs.
8.1.4 Essential Components of a Good Resume:
How to Format a Resume?
There are certain elements that are required in any resume, irrespective of the format chosen.
In addition, there are also optional elements that are specific to the individual. A person
should make decisions about these according to the job objective, career history, and the
amount of space that is available.
A good resume would start with a brief profile of the candidate, summary of qualifications,
followed by industry expertise and then professional experience in reverse chronological order.
Focus is on the most recent experiences (with responsibilities and accomplishments), and
previous experiences are only presented as a summary. This would be followed by Education
details and/or Professional Affiliations and/or Voluntary Initiatives.
A resume must contain at least following three principle areas of information:
i) Contact Information
• Name
• Postal Address
• Telephone no: work, home, mobile, as applicable
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always remember to update the skills section, important additions, contact number,
address details, current ___location etc.
iv) Including too much information: A resume should contain information relevant
to the job opportunity. Use bullets instead of writing paragraphs, this would help to
enhance the readability. Details can be given during interview. The resume should not
exceed 1- 2 pages.
v) Including a career summary that doesn’t match the job requirements: One
should ensure that there is a match between the resume summary and the key job
requirements.
vi) Leading paragraphs with irrelevant duties: Begin with a statement which shows that
the candidate posses the key skills required for the particular job opportunity. Hence
mention the most relevant duties and skill sets in the resume with context to the job
one is applying for.
vii) Being too modest: It is nice to mention the accomplishments and rewards in the
resume, but at the same time one needs to understand and know the best way to put it
across in the resume.
8.2.2 Guidelines for Resume Preparation:
Besides taking care of essential components in preparing the resume one should also keep
following guidelines in mind:
• Always use good quality paper for the resume.
• Send a good quality photocopy of the resume.
• As a fresher, one should primarily describe the academic achievements,
workshops, internships, seminars etc. attended where the skills were acquired
and/or updated.
• Ideally the resume should not exceed one or two pages.
• Check for spelling errors and grammatical mistake before the final copy of the
resume.
• Include sections like languages known, hobbies and interests, extra-curricular
activities, the positive points in brief. Select a simple font with appropriate font
size to give clarity and legibility to the resume.
Activities
• The students may select their preferred job and prepare a good resume of themselves
considering all essential components and discuss with peers.
• The students may present the resume in front of the larger group (whole class) using power
point presentation.
• Invite an alumnus from the organization and get the resumes evaluated.
NOTE: Websites given in the references at the end of this module can be visited by the students
for understanding and preparing their resume.
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Assessment
1. Written evaluation.
2. Assessment can be done on the activities organized during transaction by the facilitator, self
and peers as well as by juniors and seniors.
3. The learning outcome in this module is that the students could prepare an ideal resume of
their own. The resume developed by the students may be assessed by self, peer or facilitator
using some check list or rating scale. Facilitator and students may elaborate following
criteria for preparation of checklist or rating scale.
Comprehensiveness
• Size of resume
• Any spelling errors
• Any grammatical error
• Appropriateness of font type
• Appropriateness of font size
References:
1. https://www.wikihow.com/Write-a-Neat-Resume
2. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8fRN33GzxbA
3. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y8YH0Qbu5h4
4. https://www.indeed.com/career-advice/cover-letter-samples
5. https://placement.freshersworld.com/difference-between-resume-cv-bio-data/33122016
6. https://www.jobscan.co/resume-templates
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Expected Outcomes:
The learners at the end of this module shall be able to:
• Script responses to typical interview questions.
• Critique the performance of a few simulated interviews.
Module Outlines:
9.1 Interview Skills: Preparation and Presentation
9.1.1 Meaning of Interview
9.1.2 Types of Interview
9.1.3 STAR Approach for Facing an Interview
9.2 Interview Procedure
9.2.1 Do’s and Don’ts
9.2.2 Important Questions Generally Asked in a Job Interview
9.3 Interview Skills-Common Errors
9.3.1 Common Errors
9.3.2 Interview Questions for Assessing Your Strengths and Weaknesses
9.4 Simulation
9.4.1 Job Simulation Formats
9.4.2 Comment Critically on Simulated Interviews
9.5. Demonstrate an Ideal Interview
9.1 Interview Skills: Preparation and Presentation
9.1.1 Meaning of Interview: Ask students if they faced any interview. Discuss their experiences
and description of the term interview. The description can be summarized as follows:
• An interview is a conversation where questions are asked by one or more
individuals known as interviewer(s) and answers are given by an individual, the
interviewee.
• In a job interview it is a conversation with a purpose for an employer to assess
the candidate and for a job seeker to convince the employer.
• Sometimes, information can be transferred in both directions.
Interviews usually take place face-to-face and in person. However, new communication
technologies such as smart phones and video conferencing softwares have enabled
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conversations wherein both the interviewer and the interviewee are separated geographically.
Interviews generally involve spoken conversation between interviewer and the interviewee.
In some cases a “conversation” can happen between two persons who type questions and
answers back and forth.
9.1.2 Types of Interview: Following are few examples of different types of job interviews:
• Telephonic Interview
• Face to Face Interview
• Video Conference Interview
• Selection Interview
• Behavioral Interview
• Group or Panel Interview
Activities
• Students may be asked to prepare details of above types of job interviews. They can take
help from the videos given in references.
• Plays/skits/dramas/self created videos may be undertaken to make the activities enjoyable
without losing the purpose
9.1.3 STAR Approach for Facing an Interview: STAR is an acronym that stands for:
Situation : Set the scene and give the necessary details of your example.
Task : Describe what your responsibility was in that situation.
Action : Explain exactly what steps you took to address it.
Result : Share what outcomes your actions achieved.
What is the STAR Interview Response Technique?
In a behavioural interview, the STAR interview response technique is a way of answering
questions. This technique offers a straightforward format to answer behavioural interview
questions. These questions have openings like:
• Tell me about a situation where…
• What do you do when…
• Have you ever…
• Share an example of…
• Describe what you think…..
The answers provide a real-life example of how a certain kind of situation at work in the past
was handled by the candidate.
Activity
Ask students to watch the video and note the important tips to remember while framing the
answer for STAR type interview and discuss.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WRLF8ULhZmw
limited time in such a way so that the employer get to know the candidate, understand what
he/she can do, and be convinced he/she is the most suitable candidate.
9.2.1 Do’s and Don’ts: Employers have two primary goals for the job interview. First, they want
to determine if the candidate is qualified for the job and, second, they want to discover if the
candidate would fit well into the organization.
Following are some Do’s and Don’ts before, during and after the interview process that can
help the candidate to be successful in the job interview. Remember that employers view your
actions in the whole hiring process as examples of your work. This is an opportunity to show
them what a good worker you are.
Essential things to prepare for the interview: One has to prepare extensively for a successful
outcome of the interview. Following are some useful tips:
A. Before the interview
i) Doing homework: The first essential step in the interview process is preparation.
Do research about the employer; visit their website to know about the details of
the company (functions, staff, etc.), and note important points.
ii) Making a good first impression is important: In a face-to-face interview, do
a trial run if it is at an unfamiliar ___location and arrive a few minutes early for
the interview. Carry your resume/CV and ensure you know the dates and its
specifics so you can confidently talk through your CV and give examples.
If it is video interview, test the video tool the day before the interview, on the
day of the interview, and set up at least 15 minutes before the scheduled time.
Ensure that the place is quiet and comfortable. As the face to face contact with
the interviewer(s) is not possible, so the best alternative is to smile confidently
and appear interested and engaged.
iii) Don’t let any past rejections spoil the future ones: It is quite taxing to find
a new job. Make sure you approach every interview as a new opportunity and
learn from past mistakes. If you have several interviews lined up, try to keep
some space between them to ensure you are at your best.
iv) Don’t assume it isn’t an interview: Be sure to treat everyone in the company with
respect, from the people in the parking lot to the receptionist and the recruiting
staff. If other candidates are present, introduce yourself and be polite. It may be
used as an opportunity to assess your suitability for the potential role.
B. During the interview
i) Stay relaxed and comfortable.
ii) Greet everybody present in the interview board.
iii) Keep your job search records organized and handy.
iv) Refer to your resume as needed.
v) Listen carefully and answer accordingly: It is important to listen attentively to
the questions asked by the interviewer, and answer in a clear and direct manner
using examples from the past experience to back it up. Direct your answer to the
person who asked the question, but maintain eye contact with all the members
in the panel.
vi) Prepare smart, open ended questions to ask the interviewer: Before appearing
for interview, prepare some relevant open ended questions to be asked to the
interviewer. The questions will help the candidate illustrate his/her interest and
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motivation to succeed in the role and company. It will also determine if this
really is the opportunity or business one wants to join as well as get noticed and
separate from other candidates.
vii) Highlighting the strengths and expertise: Communicating your experience
and successes to the employer during interview will clearly highlight the strengths
that are relevant to the role.
viii) Never speak negative about former employers: It may give impression to the
interviewer that the same will be expressed by the candidate for them if he/she
will leave and may question the professionalism of the candidate. This may alert
anyone interviewing the candidate.
ix) Don’t give incorrect information: Be truthful in answering all questions and
explain and describe things that relate to the position on offer, and truly reflect
one’s past experience. If the probing is in an area that is not one’s strength, he/
she should be honest and let the interviewer know that the candidate is willing
to learn or work on and how he/she can up skill in this area. The candidate may
bring strengths in another area to the table.
x) Never interrupt the interviewer: It is important to be a good listener as well
as a good talker. It shows that you are respectful and have strong interpersonal
skills. Avoid rushing to answer a question in case the interviewer hasn’t finished
speaking.
xi) Thank everyone and don’t forget to carry your belongings before leaving the
room quietly.
C. After the interview
• Reflect on your performance in the interview
• Send a thank you note (or email) immediately after the interview to demonstrate
your understanding of the process, the rules of common courtesy, your
commitment to complete a “project,” and your ability to communicate.
Students can watch following videos for more understanding about facing interview
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=thzOhKXRETw
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SCGkKhmJ2T4
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pg4mDThQ5aQ
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qQgPnXS9yas
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CHQbsHT_9dg
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I8emh3KK_Bg
Activity
Ask students to discuss the following in small group and present in class
• What are 5 things you should do during an interview?
• What questions are not allowed in an interview?
• What should you not bring to an interview?
9.2.2 Important Questions Generally Asked in a Job Interview: There are basically two types of
questions that are generally asked - Open Ended and Closed Ended Questions.
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i. Open-Ended Questions: Open-ended questions require more than one word answers.
The answers could come in the form of a list, a few sentences or something longer such
as a speech, paragraph or essay. Examples of Open Ended Questions
• How would you describe yourself?
• What accomplishments are you particularly proud of?
• What do you know about our company, industry and/or position?
• Why should we hire you?
• Where do you see yourself in two years?
• How do you deal with conflict?
• Give me an example of a time when your work was criticized in front of
others. How did you respond? What did you learn from this situation?
ii. Closed-ended questions: These questions are those which can be answered by a simple
“yes” or “no”, or in “one or two words”. Few examples of closed-ended questions:
• What is your best quality?
• Do you have many friends?
• Do you like reading?
• When is your birthday?
Activities
• Students may be asked to identify few more questions and discuss in the class.
• Mock interviews and skits may be organized to practice facing interview.
vi) False resume- You should never make the mistake of writing down false information
in your resume. You will be able to discuss about yourself better if you are truthful
about your resume, your degrees and your past experience during your interview.
vii) Lack of attention: Pay full attention on interview. Always maintain eye contact, lean
forward slightly when talking to your interviewer, and make an active effort to listen
effectively. Focus your attention in the interview only.
9.3.2 Interview Questions for Assessing Your Strengths and Weaknesses: Following are some of
the strengths and weaknesses generally reported by the interviewees while answering above
questions in interview process. The students may be asked to discuss these and learn.
“What are your strengths and weaknesses?”
i. Assessing the strengths: Make a list of your skills/strengths before any interview and
categorize them into following three categories:
• Knowledge-based skills: Acquired from education and experience (e.g.,
computer skills, languages, degrees, training and technical ability).
• Transferable skills: Your portable skills that you take from job to job (e.g.,
communication and interpersonal skills, analytical problem solving and
planning skills).
• Personal traits: Your unique qualities (e.g., dependable, flexible, friendly,
hard working, expressive, punctual, trustworthy, creative, honest,
respectful, etc.). You may add many more.
When you complete this list, choose three to five of those strengths that match what the
employer is seeking in the job. Make sure you can give specific examples to demonstrate why
you say that is your strength if probed further.
Scripting your answers (Example)
Write a positive statement you can say with confidence:
“My strength is my flexibility to handle change. As customer service manager at my last job,
I was able to turn around a negative working environment and develop a very supportive
team. As far as weaknesses, I feel that my management skills could be stronger, and I am
constantly working to improve them.”
When confronted with this interview question, remember the interviewer is looking for a
fit. She/he is forming a picture of you based on your answers. A single answer will probably
not keep you from getting the job, unless, of course, it is something blatant. Put your energy
into your strengths statement—what you have to offer. Then let the interviewer know that
although you may not be perfect, you are working on any shortcomings you have.
Job interviews are among the most challenging part of the job-search process; therefore,
being prepared makes all the difference.
ii. Assessing the Weaknesses: Common weaknesses reported by the candidates
• Focus too much on the details
• Hard time letting go of a project
• Difficulty in saying “No”
• I get impatient when projects run beyond the deadline
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9.4 Simulation
A job simulation is any task that is designed to give an accurate preview of the role one is
interviewing for entails on a day-to-day basis. Many employers are using job simulations, as
they help companies more accurately predict whether or not candidates would be successful
if hired.
9.4.1 Job Simulation Formats: Job simulations can take many different forms, such as in-person
assignments, online exams, take-home assignments, role-playing, presentations or even
virtual simulations. Chris Chancey, founder of Amplio Recruiting, described some of the
more common job simulation formats in depth:
i) In-basket exercises: “Here, the candidate is required to complete certain tasks such as
responding to emails, taking phone calls and handling grievances within a set amount
of time. Often, these exercises are best for administrative and managerial positions.”
ii) Situational judgment tests: “The candidate is presented with a work-related scenario
and is asked to use their judgment to provide a solution that can amicably resolve the
situation at hand. These tests lend themselves well to positions such as customer service
and supervisory roles.”
iii) Work sample tests: “These, typically hands-on tests, require the candidate to complete
certain activities that are similar to actual tasks they would perform on the job. Examples
include writing code, take-home assignments, collaborating with others to design a
website or completing an onsite construction task.”
iv) Role-playing: “Role-playing is probably the most common of all job simulation
formats. These exercises help to evaluate a candidate’s ability to navigate interpersonal
challenges in a work environment.”
This is not a complete list. Because job simulations mimic the tasks of actual jobs, therefore,
the possibilities are many.
Visit this link and learn more https://www.glassdoor.com/blog/job-simulation-preparation/
9.4.2 Comment Critically on Simulated Interview: After watching following video invite
observation and comments of students and discuss.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5v-wyR5emRw&pbjreload=101#DanLok#InterviewQuesti
ons#TellMeAboutYourself
https://www.inc.com/jeff-haden/27-most-common-job-interview-questions-and-answers.html
Discuss observations and learning of students on following ideal interviews.
• https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6CetTjU155Y
• https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-7a9inDMw90
• https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HMQlA-TIAsk
Activity
Role Play: Make small groups of students. One student plays the role of interviewee and 3-4
can be the interviewers. The role may be reversed after each interviewee answering one question.
Other students can observe and give their comments.
Assessment
1. Written evaluation.
2. Role Play: Role play/mock interviews on different types of interviews may be used to assess
the outcomes.
3. Classroom Observation: Active participation of each student in classroom activities can
also be considered for assessment.
References:
1. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Interview
2. https://www.hays.ie/transform-your-business/interviewing-techniques-402911
3. https://www.roberthalf.co.nz/management-advice/recruitment-process/conduct-interviews
4. https://in.linkedin.com/jobs/creative-designer-jobs?position=1&pageNum=0
5. https://www.thebalancecareers.com/what-is-the-star-interview-response-technique-2061629
6. https://www.themuse.com/advice/star-interview-method
7. https://www.vawizard.org/wiz-pdf/STAR_Method_Interviews.pdf
8. https://learn.marsdd.com/article/open-ended-and-behaviour-based-interview-questions-
examples/
9. https://www.thebalancecareers.com/most-common-interview-mistakes-2061111
10. career.vt.edu › job-search›interviewing › do-dont
11. www.job-hunt.org›...›GuidetoSuccessfulInterviews
12. https://www.glassdoor.com/blog/job-simulation-preparation/
13. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vUzCOQcp3xYTipstonailaTelephonicinterview-
Do’sandDon’ts ofa...
14. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BVnMXNW_grkJOBINTERVIEW|LearnEnglish
Conversation-02(Season-05)|DailyEnglishConversations
15. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nhTcuUvLGOEFacetofaceinterview
16. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PCWVi5pAa307bodylanguagetipstoimpress
atyournextjobinterview
17. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1mHjMNZZvFo08commonInterviewquestionand
answers-JobInterviewSkills
18. EnglishJobInterviewTipsandTricks-HowtoAnswerJobInterviewQuestionsinEnglish
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Expected Outcomes:
The learners at the end of this module shall be able to
• Develop skills for participating effectively in a Group Discussion without committing
any error.
Module Outlines:
10.1 Meaning and Importance of Group Discussion (GD)
10.1.1 Meaning of Group Discussion
10.1.2 Importance of Group Discussion
10.1.3 Types of Group Discussion
10.2 Procedure of Group Discussion
10.2.1 Methodology
10.2.2 Ground Rules
10.2.3 Evaluation of Group Discussion
10.3 Group Discussion - Common Errors
10.4 Group Discussion- Simulation
time to think about it, and then asked to discuss it among group members for a specific
duration.
Students watch following videos on mock GD
https://placement.freshersworld.com/gd-mock-2/33122059
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CmGuCGPsosM
https://www.shiksha.com/mba/articles/group-discussion-topics-for-mba-blogId-19559
10.1.2 Importance of Group Discussion: The main purpose of GD is to identify essential skills
in a candidate. It helps in the final selection of the candidates for an organization (company,
institute, business school, etc.) on the basis of the following skills:
i. Interactive skills: Interactive skills are the most important skills under judgment
during a GD. One needs to communicate his/her thoughts verbally through actual
words and non-verbally through gestures.
ii. Leadership skills: One who is able to get the topic discussed in the right direction or
steer the whole discussion evolves as a leader. He/she encourages other members to put
forward their views and helps them build a place for themselves. The panel tries to see
if you are that person.
iii. Flexibility: Sticking to one point till the end without seeing and accepting the logic
given by others makes you come across as a stubborn participant. And yes, this is one
quality which is under judgment.
iv. Creativity: Creativity is essential to reach the right solution. Team workers should
have distinct ideas, so that the best alternative can be reached. How you approach the
topic and what you make out of the discussion.
v. Initiation: For the success of a project, it is important that the team members take
the initiatives. Through the GDs, the panel tries to identify the people who take
the initiative. However, if you decide to initiate the discussion ensure that you have
something substantial to say.
vi. Awareness: Awareness is what helps you stay confident. Make sure that you read a lot
and are aware about the current happenings in the world.
vii. Confidence: Confidence is another important quality under judgment during a GD.
Your knowledge about the topic does give you confidence but your overall conduct
during the GD tells if the candidate is confident of himself and what he says. Do not
try to snatch away the limelight by speaking when it is another candidate’s turn. This
is impolite and makes you look insecure.
10.1.3 Types of Group Discussion: GDs can be of two types: topic-based or case-based.
I. Topic Based GDs: Topic based GDs can be classified into following three types:
i. Factual Topics: Factual topics are about practical things, which an ordinary
person is aware of in his/her, day-to-day life. These are current socio-economic
topics, may be in the news lately, or could be unbound by time. A factual topic
for discussion gives a candidate a chance to prove that he/she is aware of and
sensitive to his/her environment. Examples: The education policy of India,
Tourism in India, WTO and its impact on the Indian Economy etc.
ii. Controversial Topics: Controversial topics are the ones that are argumentative
in nature. They are meant to generate controversy. The idea behind giving a topic
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like this is to see how much maturity the candidate is displaying by keeping
his/her temper in check, by rationally and logically arguing his/her point of
view without getting personal and emotional. Examples: Demonetization is a
successful and effective move; Caste-based reservation must be replaced with
economic status and education of parents.
iii. Abstract Topics: Abstract topics are about intangible things. These topics are
not given often for discussion, but their possibility cannot be ruled out. These
topics test your lateral thinking and creativity. Examples: Every cloud has a silver
lining, smart work v/s Hard work
Activity
Students may prepare a list of few more topics of Factual, Controversial and Abstract issues.
II. Case-Based GDs: Another variation is to have group discussion on a case instead of
a topic. The case study tries to simulate a real-life situation. Information about the
situation is given to the members of the group and they are asked as a group to resolve
the situation. In the case study there are no incorrect answers or perfect solutions. The
objective in the case study is to get you to think about the situation from various angles.
Management institutions usually have a case-based discussion rather than topic-based
discussion in their selection procedures.
10.2 Procedure for Group Discussion
10.2.1 Methodology: In a group discussion, there are 8-10 participants seated in semi-circle or
a U shaped arrangement. Occasionally there might be a round table for a group discussion.
The panelists sit in front of the group or in the case of a round table; they may observe the
group from a distance. Duration of the GD depends on the Corporate / Institute conducting
the group discussion. There are a number of roles that a candidate can play in a GD such as
Initiators, Data Giver, Criticizer, Supporter, Listener, Questioner, Traffic Policeman, Spectator
and Leader (Coordinator). It has been observed that many candidates act or behave in a
certain way or make their points in a particular manner. English is the common language of
the GD. During the Group Discussion, the panel evaluates the candidate’s potential to be a
leader and also his/her ability to work in teams.
10.2.2 Ground Rules: Following are the ground rules of a group discussion to keep the discussion
on track:
• Everyone should treat everyone else with respect: no name-calling, no emotional
outbursts, and no accusations.
• No arguments directed at people – only at ideas and opinions. Disagreement should
be respectful – no ridicule.
• Don’t interrupt. Listen to the whole of others’ thoughts – actually listen, rather than
just running over your own response in your head.
• Respect the group’s time. Try to keep your comments reasonably short and to the
point, so that others have a chance to respond.
• Consider all comments seriously, and try to evaluate them fairly. It is important to be
open to others’ ideas and comments. It may change your mind, or vice versa.
• Don’t be defensive if someone disagrees with you. Evaluate both positions, and only
continue to argue for yours if you continue to believe it is right.
• Everyone is responsible for following and upholding the ground rules.
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References:
1. https://www.wikihow.com/Conduct-a-Group-Discussion
2. https://www.jagranjosh.com/articles/10-mistakes-you-must-avoid-in-a-group-discussion-
1519383940-1
3. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=papqqwvULdQ How to crack GD: Most common GD
Round Mistakes to Avoid
4. https://pdfs.semanticscholar.org/901e/13f87e56b9a66c57d7e39f5432cb9eef1ce8.pdf
5. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PfJg-67smf4
6. http://www.indianshout.com/sample-mock-gd-group-discussion-i/2634
7. http://www.indianshout.com/sample-mock-gd-group-discussion-ii/2637.
8. https://books.google.co.in/books?isbn=1478610670
9. https://books.google.co.in/books?id=lgYQHX0guEsC
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Module 11: E
xploring Career 3 Hours
Opportunities
Objectives:
The objectives of the module are to help learners
• Acquire career planning skills and fully pursue to partake in a successful career path.
• Explore desired career opportunities in the employment market in consideration of an
individual SWOT analysis.
Expected Outcomes:
At the end of this module the learners shall be able to:
• Explore sources of career opportunities (online/offline).
• Identify career opportunities in consideration of their own potential and aspirations.
• Use the necessary components required to prepare for a career in an identified
occupation (as a case study).
Module Outlines:
11.1 Process of Career Exploration
11.2 Knowing Yourself – Personal Characteristics
11.3 Knowledge about the World of Work, Requirements of Jobs Including Self-employment.
11.4 Sources of Career Information
11.5 Preparing for a Career based on Potentials of Students and Availability of Opportunities
rewards. A career is a sequence of separate but related work activities that provide continuity,
order, and meaning in an individual’s life. In the concept of career, changes in attitudes,
motivation and values occur as a person grows old. In both the perspectives, the focus is on
the individual. Career, thus, represents an organized, well-timed and positive move taken by
a person through his/her life.
Main components of career planning:
• Self Assessment (general mental ability, special abilities, personality characteristics,
personal interests, attitudes, values, aspirations), through SWOT analysis.
• Career exploration (It focuses on learning about the occupations that seem to be a
good fit based on the results of the self assessment and any other professions of their
interest).
• Gathering information about career options through print, electronic and on-line sources
• Gaining experience in chosen career.
Ask students to visit following website for exploring career Tools and Resources.
http://www.careerprofiles.info/career-exploration.html
to vocational guidance and counselling. Besides, the census, National Sample Survey,
Planning Commission and other agencies supply from time to time information related
to employment/unemployment trend. Newspapers and other media also publish careers
information. On the basis of such information future human resource requirements can be
made.
There are ample opportunities in self employment. There is a need to explore such opportunities
to take career decision.
In addition to learning position titles in various occupations/professions/ careers, it is
also important to discover the skills, educational/training requirements, duties, working
conditions, salary including perks, job prospects, advantages/disadvantages and personal
attributes needed to be successful in various fields.
Assignment
On the basis of the knowledge gained through various websites and videos the students may be
asked to prepare a strategic career plan considering following:
Step 1 – Assessment of one’s strengths and weaknesses
Step 2 – Identify Careers of their choice using print, electronic and on-line sources of career
information
Step 3 – Develop a Strategy/Action plan to proceed in that direction
Students may prepare this assignment in small groups as per their common career goals.
Reflection on their learning may be depicted in the report. This may be included in the portfolio
for assessment.
Assessment
1. Written Evaluation.
2. Through evaluating portfolio: Students may be asked to prepare a portfolio in which
they can record their experiences, report of their work with reflection, photos, video/audio
recording of the interview with professional.
Note: The students should be told in advance the criteria for portfolio evaluation.
3. Through written evaluation.
4. Project evaluation.
References:
1. https://seaver.pepperdine.edu/career-services/students/careerexploration/
2. https://www.thebalancecareers.com/the-career-planning-process-524774
3. https://www.callutheran.edu/students/career-services/career-counseling/six-steps-career-
planning.html
4. http://www.careerprofiles.info/career-exploration.html
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Expected Outcomes:
At the end of this module the learners shall be able to
• Prepare effective presentations considering the important strategies
Module Outlines:
12.1 Presentation: Meaning and Types
12.1.1 Meaning of Presentation
12.1.2 Types of Presentations
12.1.3 Presentation for Internal and External Communication
12.2 Presentation Strategies
12.3 Ways to Improve Presentation Skills Over Time
Activity
Ask students to give examples of presentation to be used in each category of the learners.
Opening and Closing a Presentation: The following video can be played in the class to
•
make the students learn how to open and close the presentation.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yl_FJAOcFgQ
(How to open and close presentations? - Presentation lesson from Mark Powell)
The video can be followed by discussion in the class to highlight the major points of opening
and closing any presentation.
The facilitator may describe the tips for opening and closing of presentation to the students.
• Make the introduction relevant to the goals, values, and needs of the audience
• Make some illustration
• Stimulate thinking by asking questions
• Share a personal experience
• Begin with an anecdote
• Project a cartoon or colorful visual
• Make a stimulating or inspirational statement
• Give a unique demonstration
In the concluding session the presenter should reinforce the main ideas
• Conclusion:
communicated during the presentation. Thus, the audience will remember the main
ideas.
Assignment
An assignment can be given to students to select a particular type of presentation and suggest
opening and closing of the presentation. After the submission of the assignment the facilitator
can ask few students to describe the opening and closing of presentation. Other students can note
down the strong and weak points. The same may be shared with the presenters.
iii) Using Presentation Tools: The tools in presentation are used to emphasize main ideas,
illustrate a concept, or stimulate the interest of the audience. The tools may be audio/
video clip. The tools in addition to the text make the presentation more effective. The
aids include an audio recording, a clip from the film, animation, flip charts, posters,
photographs, slides, collage, and videos.
The facilitator may describe the following tips on use of visual aids:
• Give the visuals a consistent appearance including color and spacing. Start
the text at the same place on each visual.
• Try to observe the seven by seven rules: on an overhead slide have no
more than seven lines and seven words per line. Similar rules would also
pertain to flip charts, Power Point and other computer generated slides,
and posters.
• Use a simple typeface or font. Don’t use more than two different typefaces,
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if possible.
• Make sure the text is large enough for people in the back of the room
to read. Letters on a flipchart should be at least 3 inches in height.
For a projected overhead or slide, fonts between 20 and 48 points are
customary.
• Don’t show visuals that conflict with what you’re saying — this includes
displaying them once you’ve moved beyond their content.
• Don’t read the text that’s on the visual, but do paraphrase and add to it.
iv) Handling Questions: Generally there is a question-and-answer session after the
presentation. If not prepared in advance to face few questions from the audience, it
can become very embarrassing for the presenter.
The presenter decides in advance how and when the questions will be entertained
and makes clear to the audience at the start of the presentation. Some speakers prefer
questions to be raised as they arise during the presentation. Others prefer to deal with
questions at the end. It is important to learn how to make the question session pleasant
and productive.
v) Presentation to Heterogenic Group: The audience may vary in age, sex, ethnic
group, caste, socio-cultural and economic backgrounds. The presenter should have
knowledge about the audience to develop presentation to accommodate divergent
audience.
Assessment
1. Written evaluation.
2. Evaluation of presentation by students in the classroom.
3. Students’ portfolio evaluation: Students may keep their different presentations with
feedback and remarks by the facilitator and the peers in the portfolio. The portfolio will be
submitted at the end of the course for evaluation.
Note: The skills of effective presentation may be assessed on each presentation during
class transaction. The facilitator may develop a check list or rating scale or rubrics using
some parameters on which the assessment will be done. Help of students may be taken for
identifying parameters.
References:
1. https://www.gildabonanno.com/presentation-skill-coaching-videos
2. https://www.teachingenglish.org.uk/article/student-presentations
3. https://press.sunway.edu.my/blog/importance-presentation-skills-institutions-higher-learning
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4. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WJgSkf5nuug
5. https://www.klientsolutech.com/importance-of-presentation-skills/
6. https://www.youtube. com/watch?v=1gtMDX3dIKE (Effective Presentation Skills: Using
Vocal Energy to Excite Your Audience)
7. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yl_FJAOcFgQ (How to open and close presentations? -
Presentation lesson from Mark Powell)
8. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TmbQFWBvTtY (Body Language for Presentations)
9. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q5WT2vweFRY (Presenting & Public Speaking Tips -
How to improve skills & confidence)
10. https://www.talkfreely.com/blog/internal-and-external-communication
11. https://blog.smarp.com/12-reasons-why-internal-external-communications-go-hand-in-hand
12. https://sproutsocial.com/insights/internal-communications-guide/
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Objectives:
The objectives of the module are to help learners
• Describe the role of trust in creating a collaborative team.
• Describe strategies to build trust with employees.
• Describe strategies to overcome the fear of being judged.
Expected Outcomes:
At the end of this module the learners shall be able to:
• Build trust as a leader with employees to create a Collaborative Team.
• Overcome the fear of being judged as team member/employee.
Module Outlines:
13.1 Meaning and Role of Trust in Creating a Collaborative Team
13.1.1 Definition of Trust
13.1.2 Role of Trust in Creating a Collaborative Team
13.2 Strategies to Build Trust with Employees
13.3 Criteria for Evaluation of Trust and Collaboration in Teams
13.4 Agree to Disagree and Disagree to Agree – Spirit of Team Work
13.5 Understanding Fear of Being Judged and Strategies to Overcome Fear
13.5.1 Understanding the Fear of Being Judged
13.5.2 Signs and Symptoms of Social Anxiety Disorder
13.5.3 Strategies to Overcome Fear or Social Anxiety
13.1 Meaning and Role of Trust in Creating a Collaborative Team
“Trust is the knowledge that staff will be involved in decisions that will affect them”. -
Barna
If we ask following questions to the leader/ manager of an organization and get yes to any
of these questions then perhaps he/she has an issue with letting go, with trusting others, and
treating them as colleagues.
• Do you find yourself referring to the staff you lead as ‘my staff’?
• Do you regularly ask for reports and updates on progress and performance from
‘your staff’?
• Do you sometimes feel that it is easier to do it yourself, or that you could do it
better?
• Do you make the decisions?
Let us understand the concept of ‘trust’ and how it can influence the performance of an
organization.
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13.1.1 Definition of Trust: Trust can be described as a “reliance on the character, ability, strength,
or truth of someone or something.” Trust is essential to an effective team, because it provides
a sense of safety. When the team members feel safe with each other, they feel comfortable to
open up, take appropriate risks, and expose vulnerabilities.
Without trust there’s less innovation, collaboration, creative thinking, and productivity, and
people spend their time protecting themselves and their interests – this is time that should be
spent helping the group attain its goals.
Trust is also essential for knowledge sharing. Trust is a key element in a team’s knowledge
acquisition. If team members trust one another, they are more likely to share knowledge, and
communicate openly.
Following are different types of trust, each having a different theoretical grounding and level
of analysis and each playing its role in collaboration.
• Cognitive type of trust or fragile trust
• Affect based trust or resilient trust
• Calculus based trust
• Deterrence based trust
• Institution based trust
Activity
Students may be asked to prepare brief write up on each type of trust and present in classroom for
sharing with each other. It can be a small group work.
13.1.2 Role of Trust in Creating a Collaborative Team: Collaboration across institutional and
national boundaries is now an accepted strategic choice for most businesses competing
in an increasingly competitive world. It seems paradoxical that a firm needs to be a
trusted cooperator in some network in order to be an effective competitor in the modern
economy.
The role of trust in collaboration is usually attributed ex post; successful alliances seem to
involve trust; unsuccessful alliances do not. As such, much of the extant literature has treated
trust as a residual term for the complex social-psychological processes necessary for social
action to occur. The relationship between trust and performance yet remains somewhat
elusive in collaborative relationships, may be due to the frequent application of interpersonal
types of trust to inter-organizational types of collaborations.
ii) Communicate openly: Open communication is essential for building trust. Following
are the strategies to accomplish open communication among team members.
• Create a charter for team members to define the purpose of the team, as
well as each person’s role. Present this charter at the first team meeting,
and encourage each team member to ask questions, and discuss his or her
expectations.
• Organize team building exercises. Carefully selected and well planned
exercises can help “break the ice” and encourage people to open up and
start communicating.
• Organize regular meetings to provide all team members a chance to talk
about their progress, and discuss any problems that they’re experiencing.
This is important as it provides opportunities for team members to talk,
and to help one another solve problems.
• Demonstrate that open communication is important to you by
consistently sharing with the group. The more sharing with team
members will make them more comfortable in developing trust in the
leader and each other.
iii) Know each other personally: Knowing each other is another strategy to develop trust.
This can be done in following ways:
• Create situations that help them to share personal stories like asking
sensitively about their family, or about their hobbies.
• Set aside time each week for informal group discussions where some
common topics may be discussed or they can tell about their expertise
and skills, their personal history, and their interests, etc. Same can be
organised online if the team works remotely or it’s a new team.
iv) Avoid blaming anyone for making mistake: It is always better to encourage everyone
in the group to think about the mistake made by a member in a constructive way to
avoid unpleasant atmosphere. This also lowers morale, undermines trust, and reduces
productivity. Instead all should try to fix what had happened, and move forward
together and make sure that this mistake doesn’t happen again.
v) Discourage small group formation or cliques: It is quite natural that small groups
or cliques form within a team between team members sharing common interests or
work tasks. This might affect other members negatively. They can also undermine trust
between group members.
The leader can avoid clique formation by open discussion about this with the team
members, and see what they think about cliques and their effect on other group
members. This damaging behavior of the team members can be discouraged by
addressing the issue openly.
vi) Discuss trust issues: Trust issues in a team appear due to some problem. The first step
to deal with these issues is to find out the origin of the problem. The issues can be
resolved by asking team members to fill out a questionnaire anonymously. Ask them
about the level of trust within the group, as well as why they think there is a lack of
trust. After getting the responses, get everyone together to talk about these issues while
respecting the anonymity of the responses.
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Activity
Ask students to download rubrics for assessing trust and transformational leadership practice
from internet.
evaluated by others. This is diagnosed as ‘social anxiety’ disorder. These situations may be so
frightening that the person gets anxious just thinking about them thus, disrupting his/her
life in the process. However, one can learn to be comfortable in such social situations and
reclaim his/her life.
Causes of social anxiety: Although social anxiety is quite common, however, many people
struggle with these fears, the situations may vary for individual to individual. Following are
common causes which may trigger social anxiety:
• Meeting new people
• Making small talk
• Public speaking
• Performing on stage
• Being the center of attention
• Being watched while doing something
• Being teased or criticized
• Talking with “important” people or authority figures
• Being called on in class
• Speaking up in a meeting
• Taking exams
• Making phone calls
• Attending parties or other social gatherings
Activity
Students may identify few more situations where they experienced social anxiety. Once the
exhaustive list is prepared, each student can rate (“Never to Always” five point Likert scale) them
on above list of situations where they felt social anxiety.
13.5.2 Signs and Symptoms of Social Anxiety Disorder: Social anxiety is expressed in emotional,
physical and behavioral signs and symptoms. These are described briefly below:
i) Emotional signs and symptoms
• Excessive self-consciousness and anxiety in everyday social situations
• Intense worry for days, weeks, or even months before an upcoming social situation
• Extreme fear of being watched or judged by others, especially people one doesn’t
know
• Fear that one’s actions will embarrass or humiliate him/her
• Fear that others will notice his/her nervousness
ii) Physical signs and symptoms
• Red face, or blushing
• Shortness of breath
• Upset stomach, nausea (i.e. butterflies)
• Trembling or shaking (including shaky voice)
• Racing heart or tightness in chest
• Sweating or hot flashes
• Feeling dizzy or faint
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• When you recognize your fear symptoms arising, sit down and think about what
is happening to you. This is like making a mental journal entry.
• Observe the symptoms as they arise.
• Don’t do anything about it. Just sit and keep track of yourself as the moment
continues.
• Being passive raises self-awareness and prevents from doing the typical things
one does when experience fear.
Step 6. Be with nature for relaxation: Nature calms people, reducing stress levels and
changing moods from anxious to relax. Walking or being in nature like parks and gardens
or being with plants at home helps reduce symptoms of fear and anxiety. The physical
activity of walking or jogging outdoors also requires use our brains differently, which can
cause a switch from irrational fearful thoughts to clearer thinking that can help overcome
the fear.
Assessment
1. Written evaluation.
2. Demonstration by students: Demonstration by students of each strategy used by a leader
to build trust in the team members may be used for assessment.
3. Evaluation of students’ portfolio.
Note
i) Students may be asked to develop portfolio on observation of practicing trust during their
visit in any one organization. They can develop some tools like rating scale, check list or a
questionnaire for the leader and team members.
ii) They can also note down the situations where they felt social anxiety, the signs and symptoms
and the strategies to overcome it.
The facilitator may develop a check list or rating scale using some criteria on which the assessment
will be done. Help of students may be taken for identifying criteria.
References:
1. Nielsen, B.B. (2004). The role of trust in collaborative relationships: A multi-dimensional
approach, M@n@gement, 7(3): 239-256.
2. https://www.mindtools.com/pages/article/building-trust-team.htm
3. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=amJ7ApXR0tw.
4. https://www.projectsmart.co.uk/how-do-you-help-the-group-reach-consensus-when-they-
simply-dont-agree.php.
5. https://www.helpguide.org/articles/anxiety/social-anxiety-disorder.htm/
6. https://reallifecounseling.us/overcome-fear-and-anxiety/
7. https://thedecider.app/consensus-decision-making
8. https://www.heart.org/idc/groups/heart-public/@wcm/@mwa/documents/downloadable/
ucm_454080.pdf
9. https://www.adultnumeracynetwork.org/resources/Documents/Quarterly%20Minutes/
July%2016,%202020/The%20Basics%20of%20Consensus%20Decision%20Making.pdf
10. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FgjgXIxHmmI
11. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OYMgLi1WrNg
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Objective:
The objective of the module is to help learners
• Develop listening as a team skill.
Expected Outcome:
At the end of this module the learners shall be able to:
• Use effective listening skills as team leader and/or team member for proper functioning
of the team.
Module Outlines:
14.1 Listening as a Team Skill
14.1.1 Listening Skill
14.1.2 Advantages of Effective Listening Skills
14.1.3 Types of Listening
14.2 Listening as a Team Member and Team Leader
14.2.1 Listening as a Team Leader
14.2.2 Listening as a Team Member
14.2.3 Improving Listening Skills
14.3 Uses of Active Listening Strategies to Encourage Sharing of Ideas
14.3.1 The Importance of Active Listening in the Workplace
14.3.2 Strategies for Improving Active Listening Skills to Encourage Sharing of Ideas
14.1 Listening as a Team Skill
“Know how to listen, and you will profit even from those who talk badly”. – Plutarch
Before starting the discussion on listening as a team skill ask following questions to students:
1. How often do you find yourself trying hard to avoid the habit of interrupting others
while they are speaking?
2. Do you find yourself tempted to jump in and finish someone else’s sentence?
If they have answered ‘yes’ to one or both of them, they need to work on improving listening
skills. Let us understand what is meant by ‘listening skills’, and its role in professional and
even in personal life.
14.1.1 Listening Skill
Listening skill has been discussed in detail in Module 1. Here we are focusing on its advantages
and use team leader and members in effective functioning and increasing productivity of any
organization. Listening is a core competency to succeed in any walk of life. Listening is
the combination of hearing and interpreting. Failure in either part is a failure in listening.
Effective listening makes the person speaking feel valued, prevents miscommunication, speeds
productivity, and creates more active forums of discussion. Without the proper training, two
things can stand in the way of effective listening: bad habits and style differences. The first
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step to becoming an effective listener is to break and eliminate those habits. The second step
is to understand the different ways people listen, along with its benefits and potential trouble
spots.
14.1.2 Advantages of Effective Listening Skills
Effective listening skills can help anyone become a better listener by eliminating barriers to
good listening, improving communication skills, maximizing productivity, and building
interpersonal relationships. Effective listening between speaker and listener develops respect
and trust. Employees will respond better to managers who they think are listening intently
to their needs.
Being a good listener in the workplace has many benefits. People with well-developed listening
skills are more productive, are better problem solvers, and have healthier interpersonal
relationships.
Following are a few advantages of effective listening skills
i) Generates mutual trust: Authentic listening generates respect and trust between talker
and listener. Employees will naturally respond better to managers who they think are
listening intently to their needs.
ii) Increase productivity: Problems are solved faster if people are encouraged to explain
problems and be given the freedom to work though solutions out loud before being
told what to do.
iii) Keep heads cool: Listening intently helps both sides to stay cool. It also helps them to
be peaceful when they are dealing with a crisis or discussing a sensitive issue.
iv) Boost confidence: Great listeners tend to have better self-esteem and self-image
because, in their listening, they work toward establishing positive relationships.
v) Make fewer mistakes: Good listening leads to more accuracy in retaining information.
One remembers important facts later on, minimizing the risk of miscommunication
and making mistakes.
Activity
A group discussion can be organized and students can observe following advantages of listening
skills:
• Effective listening requires concentration and the use of other senses not just hearing the
words spoken.
• We learn more when we talk less and listen more.
• The better you listen, the more you will be listened to.
• Listening makes you knowledgeable and thoughtful person.
• Without listening messages are misunderstood and communication breaks down.
• Good listeners always come across as wise person.
• Good listening and skilful questioning give powerful message to those with whom you
interact.
• Good listening encourages the speaker to communicate fully, openly and honestly.
• Always seek clarification while listening, to ensure that your understanding is correct.
facial expressions and nods to acknowledge the speaker. These types of leaders possess
a tremendous degree of executive presence and are tuned in to the dynamics that are
taking place around them, at all times. A leader should be expansively mindful.
vi) Don’t interrupt: Compassionate leaders listen and don’t interrupt the flow of the
dialogue of the team member. They embrace two-way communication and are
aware that with every interruption comes disengagement. Stay focused on what your
employees are saying. Stay in the moment and be respectful of others. Listen and
become a more compassionate leader.
14.2.2 Listening as a Team Member
Listening as a team member/employee is equally important for the proper functioning of any
organization. Then each member should also practice effective form of listening described for
an effective leader. Following are some tips for the team members:
• Encourage the speaker, ask questions and be considerate.
• Give and take effective feedback and acknowledge.
• Try to understand others’ perspectives before responding.
• Be more empathetic and don’t rush to make a decision.
• Actively listen and see the body language of the people around. Be more open to
learning from others.
• Show the verbal and non-verbal signs of interest.
14.2.3 Improving Listening Skills
Listening skills can be improved by practicing active listening. Active listening involves three
main elements, viz. attention, attitude and adjustment.
i) Attention: We know now that attention is the fundamental difference between hearing
and listening. Paying attention to what a speaker is saying requires intentional effort
on your part. The listener should quickly ascertain the speaker’s central premise or
controlling idea. Once this is done, it becomes easier for the listener to discern what is
most important. Distinguishing the speaker’s primary goal, his/her main points, and
the structure of the speech are all easier when the listener is able to listen with an open
mind.
ii) Attitude: Approaching the task of listening with a positive attitude and an open-mind
will make the act of listening much easier.
iii) Adjustment: Often when we hear someone speak, we don’t know in advance what he/
she is going to be saying. So, we need to be flexible, willing to follow a speaker. If the
audience members are more intent on reacting to or anticipating what is said, they will
be poor listeners.
Active listening requires the listener to hear, evaluate and interpret the content of
speech. The following are four types of active listening.
• Paraphrasing: Paraphrasing occurs when the listener repeats the essence of the message
spoken by the communicator but in different words. As an active listening strategy,
paraphrasing is important because it demonstrates that the listener is concentrating
upon the message offered by the speaker.
• Reflecting Feelings: Active listeners reflect the feelings of the communicator in their
consideration of the message and their response to the speaker. The communicator will
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feel validated by the emotional response of the listener and the listener will feel that the
message is personal and relevant.
• Reflecting Meaning: Reflecting meaning concentrates upon the factual message of
the speaker. Reflecting meaning allows the listener to confirm understanding with the
speaker.
• Summative Reflection: Summative reflection involves the confirmation of the
message content. It combines the elements of paraphrasing, reflecting meaning and
reflecting emotion to illustrate the speaker’s considered evaluation of the speaker’s
message. Summative reflection requires the listener to incorporate personal views in
the description of the speaker’s message.
iv. Ensure understanding: Understand the purpose of a conversation and the speaker’s
intention. This understanding is crucial for effective communication and to send across
the right message without diluting the original topic.
v. Be empathetic: Being empathetic allows the listener to be present with the speaker
emotionally and understanding them. It will enable the listener to feel the speaker’s
emotions sad, joyful, or fearful. One has to make effort to be present and concentrate
at the moment always.
vi. Listen to tone and voice modulation: Listening to tone and voice modulation of the
speaker helps the listener in sharing ideas.
vii. Recapitulate points: This will help in giving feedback to the speaker to clear doubts
and keep the conversation transparent.
Assessment
1. Written evaluation.
2. Through role play: Students can play the role of a leader and team members and practice
listening skills. The facilitator can observe the performance of students (as a leader and
team member) and assess.
3. Self-evaluation of listening skills: Students may be asked to visit following website and
know about their listening skills. They may develop their own listening profile and address
the challenges of listening effectively.
References:
1. https://blog.vantagecircle.com/active-listening/
2. https://www.yourtimetogrow.com/benefitslisteningworkplace/#:~:text=By%20improving%20
your%20own%20and,skills%20%E2%80%93%20both%20technical%20and%20soft.
3. https://www.aconsciousrethink.com/9861/types-of-listening/
4. https://www.masterclass.com/articles/how-listening-styles-help-you-communicate#7-types-
of-listening-styles
5. https://courses.lumenlearning.com/atd-fscj-publicspeaking/chapter/types-of-listening/
6. Korcok, Jessica. “What are the Four Types of Active Listening?” , https://penandthepad.com/
info-12067228-four-types-active-listening.html. 07 August 2017.
7. https://www.skillsyouneed.com/ips/listening-types.html
8. https://www.forbes.com/sites/glennllopis/2013/05/20/6-effective-ways-listening-can-make-
you-a-better-leader/#16dd23f71756.
9. https://medium.com/@scottmagdalein/why-listening-to-your-team-is-so-important-and-
how-you-can-be-a-better-listening-leader-17b7edb09f34.
10. http://cbseacademic.nic.in/web_material/Circulars/2012/63_Guidelines_for_Assessment_of_
Speaking_and_Listening_Skills.pdf
11. http://www.nysed.gov/common/nysed/files/programs/world-languages/lotecassess.pdf
12. https://www.rcampus.com/rubricshowc.cfm?code=Q522CA&sp=true
13. www.researchgate.net › publication › 3 HURIER Listening Profile - ResearchGate
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Expected Outcomes:
At the end of this module the learners shall be able to:
• Generate, share and maximize new ideas with the concept of brainstorming; and
• Document key critical ideas/thoughts articulated and action points to be
implemented with timelines in a team discussion (as MOM) in identified applicable
templates.
Module Outlines:
15.1 Brainstorming as a Technique to Promote Idea Generation
15.1.1 Brainstorming: Meaning and the Process
15.1.2 Procedure for Conducting Brainstorming
15.1.3 Importance of Using Brainstorming Technique
15.1.4 Types of Brainstorming
15.2 Learning and Showcasing the Principles of Documentation of Team Session Outcomes
technique used to find a solution for a specific problem. In this technique a group of people
in a meeting think more freely and they suggest as many spontaneous new ideas as possible
to deal with a specific problem. All these ideas are noted down without any criticism. These
ideas are evaluated after brainstorming session and solution is obtained.
15.1.2 Procedure for Conducting Brainstorming: Osborn suggested that the focus of
brainstorming should be to: reduce social inhibitions among group members; stimulate idea
generation; and increase overall creativity of the group. According to Osborn following four
general rules of brainstorming should be followed for effective outcomes:
i) Invite more number of ideas: The assumption is that the greater the number of ideas
generated the bigger the chance of producing a radical and effective solution. This rule
aims at enhancing divergent production of ideas.
ii) Avoid criticism: The members of the group should not criticize any idea of the
members. The participants should focus on extending or adding to idea. In the absence
of criticism the participants will feel free to generate unusual ideas.
iii) Welcome wild ideas: Wild ideas should be encouraged to get a good number
of ideas/ suggestions. They can be generated by looking from new perspectives
and suspending assumptions. These new ways of thinking might give you better
solutions.
iv) Combine and improve ideas: As suggested by the slogan “1+1=3” it is believed to
stimulate the building of ideas by a process of association.
According to Osborn brainstorming should address a specific question rather than addressing
multiple questions. Further, the problem must require the generation of ideas rather than
judgment. He suggested examples such as “generating possible names for a product as proper
brainstorming material, whereas analytical judgments such as ‘whether or not to marry’ do
not have any need for brainstorming”.
15.1.3 Importance of Using Brainstorming Technique: As compared to conventional group
problem solving techniques brainstorming provides a free and open environment that
encourages everyone to participate. Original and sometimes unusual ideas of members
are welcomed and built upon. All members are encouraged to contribute fully and freely.
This helps in developing a rich array of creative solutions. It increases the richness of ideas
explored, which means better solutions to the problems are obtained. While brainstorming
can be effective, it is important to approach it with an open mind and a spirit of non-
judgment.
15.1.4 Types of Brainstorming: Brainstorming can be done individually or in group.
i) Individual Brainstorming: In individual brainstorming the individual generate ideas
on their own more freely and creatively. They don’t have to worry about other members
reactions. However, in individual brainstorming it is not possible to develop ideas as
fully as in group. The group members have wider experience which is shared in group
brainstorming.
Individual brainstorming produces more ideas and sometimes better ideas than group
brainstorming. It is most effective when a simple problem needs to be solved, a list of
ideas to be generated, or a broad issue is to be focused on.
A comfortable and peaceful place to sit and think should be selected for individual
brainstorming session. Use of ‘Mind Maps’ to arrange and develop ideas helps.
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ii) Group Brainstorming: Group brainstorming is often more effective for solving complex
problems. In group brainstorming one can take full advantage of the experience and
creativity of all team members. The creativity and experience of group members is
shared more efficiently in this situation. Ideas can be developed in greater depth with
group brainstorming than with individual brainstorming.
Sometimes group members do not strictly follow the rules of brainstorming, and bad
behaviors creep in. Other members pay so much attention to other members’ ideas
that they don’t generate their own ideas. Sometimes there is a “blocking.” It means
members forget these ideas while they wait for their turn to speak.
Size of Groups: The size of the group should be small. Osborn suggested groups of around
12 participants, including both experts and novices. If the participants are from a wide range
of disciplines, it can make the session more creative. In group brainstorming every member
feels that he/she has contributed to the solution, and it gives an idea to people that others
have creative ideas to offer. It helps in team building. Participants are encouraged to provide
wild and unexpected answers. Ideas receive no criticism or discussion. The group simply
provides ideas that might lead to a solution and apply no analytical judgment as to the
feasibility. The judgments are reserved for a later date.
The leader has to conduct the session tightly as sometimes unusual suggestions may appear
to lack value at first sight. It can be risky for individuals.
Activity
Demonstrate a brainstorming session using following steps
• Define the problem clearly, and lay out any criteria to be met;
• Keep the session focused on the problem;
• Ensure that no one criticizes or evaluates ideas during the session. Criticism introduces an
element of risk for group members when putting forward an idea. This stifles creativity and
cripples the free running nature of a good brainstorming session;
• Encourage an enthusiastic, uncritical attitude among members of the group. Try to get
everyone to contribute and develop ideas, including the quietest members of the group;
• Let people have fun brainstorming. Encourage them to come up with as many ideas as
possible, from solidly practical ones to wildly impractical ones. Welcome creativity;
• Ensure that no train of thought is followed for too long;
• Encourage people to develop other people’s ideas, or to use other ideas to create new ones;
and
• Appoint one person to note down ideas that come out of the session. A good way of doing
this is to use a flip chart. This should be studied and evaluated after the session.
Where possible, participants in the brainstorming process should come from as wide a range
of disciplines as possible. This brings a broad range of experience to the session and helps to
make it more creative.
It is worth exploring the use of computer-based tools for group brainstorming. As long as
you’re reasonably quick with keyboard and mouse, these significantly improve the quality
and effectiveness of a brainstorming session.
Students may be asked to explore other brainstorming techniques and use different techniques
in brainstorming. They can visit the following link:
https://business.tutsplus.com/articles/top-brainstorming-techniques--cms-27181
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Brainstorming is a great way of generating radical ideas. During the brainstorming process
there is no criticism of ideas, as free rein is given to people’s creativity (criticism and judgment
cramp creativity). This often makes group brainstorming sessions enjoyable experiences,
which are great for bringing team members together. Individual brainstorming is best for
generating many ideas, but tends to be less effective at developing them. Group brainstorming
tends to develop fewer ideas, but takes each idea further. Group brainstorming needs formal
rules for it to work smoothly.
15.2 Learning and Showcasing the Principles of Documentation of Team
Session Outcomes
Once the brainstorming session is finished a huge pile of post-it notes to work with is
left. It is clear that some of the ideas will never see the light of day. Now the task is to
find “the one most workable”. The challenge often lies in determining how to incorporate
the relevant ideas gathered during the session into actionable insights that will result in
meeting the needs of the organization/business. It is easy to facilitate a brainstorming
session but there’s a lot of analysis and possibly, more brainstorming to be done to identify
the best way forward.
Assessment
1. Written evaluation.
2. Peer observation reports of the behaviour and participation of each student during a
brainstorming session. The facilitator may develop some criteria with the help of students
to assess the knowledge and learning of skills.
3. Self learning report of each student about their experience and reflection during a
brainstorming session.
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References:
1. Osborn, A.F. (1963) Applied imagination: Principles and procedures of creative problem solving
(Third Revised Edition). New York, NY: Charles Scribner’s Sons.
2. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Brainstorming
3. https://business.tutsplus.com/articles/top-brainstorming-techniques--cms-27181
4. http://www.brainstorming.co.uk/tutorials/whatisbrainstorming.html
5. https://www.mindtools.com/brainstm.html
Video References:
1. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YXZamW4-Ysk (Brainstorming Techniques to Create
New Innovative Ideas (includes challenge))
2. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yAidvTKX6xM (Six Creative Ways To Brainstorm Ideas)
3. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9K8W4ooygUU (Brainstorming Done Right!)
4. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ja8HqSAIQVE (How to Brainstorm Alone)
5. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O0lEj2d-ipE (Brainstorming with Mind Maps in a
Group)
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Module 16: S
ocial and Cultural 2 Hours
Etiquettes
Objectives:
The objectives of the module are to help learners
• Describe social and cultural etiquettes in general.
• Describe the role of social and cultural etiquettes in an organization.
Expected Outcomes:
At the end of this module the learners shall be able to:
• Use social and cultural etiquettes in an organisation for better team work.
Module Outlines:
16.1 Etiquette: Meaning and Need
16.2 Aspects of Social and Cultural/Corporate Etiquette in Promoting Team Work
16.2.1 Social Etiquette
16.2.2 Cultural Etiquette
16.2.3 Corporate/Professional Etiquette
ii) Basic social media etiquette rules: In present times, almost all people in all age groups use
social media for interaction with each other. However, they should be well aware of following
etiquette or rules during the interaction.
• Never post anything on any forum that you wouldn’t want the world to see.
• Avoid put-downs, regardless of how witty you think you are.
• Don’t divulge too much information about yourself or your family to protect
your family.
• Self-promotion is okay in limited amounts. There are others who need your
attention, so take some time to respond to their posts and offer praise when
needed.
• If you make a mistake on social media, own it. Offer a sincere apology and avoid
doing it again.
• Follow the rules of social media you are using.
iii) Role of social etiquette in promoting team work: Workplace etiquette improves work
relationships. It shows your team that you care about them, their work, and their value to
the team. Following are seven ways you can use workplace etiquette and courtesy to set you
and your team apart in any economy:
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• Positive Attitude is the key: Have a great positive attitude like your job depended
on it. Always express positive attitude about the organization and the team. The
professionals appreciate being acknowledged by teammates when they arrive at
work.
• Mark nonverbal communication: Always have a good eye contact in interaction
with people to show you are listening. Avoid crossing the arms over your chest
as this can indicate you are not approachable. Greet your team with a good
handshake or any other gesture.
• Be punctual: It is important to be on time or a few minutes early for work and
meetings regardless of age, job title, or level in the team hierarchy. Punctuality
shows your team that you respect them and their time. Try to complete tasks and
projects on time, too; don’t let the team down with excuses.
• Use proper tech etiquette: These include timely reply to the emails and phone
calls of the team members if possible or within 24 hours.
• Provide support to the team member: It is always appreciated to help out and
show support to a teammate if he/she has a heavy day and deadlines to meet and
you don’t, step up and offer to help.
• Contribute value to team meetings: Focus on the meeting, not on side
conversations or on phone. Be open to others’ ideas and points of view. Let
others finish speaking before sharing your thoughts or ideas.
• Show appreciation: Sincerely appreciate the team members using appropriate
words and gesture to thank as often as possible both publicly—when appropriate—
and privately. If your boss congratulates you on a job well done and you had help
from your team members, be sure to tell your boss so they can receive credit, too.
They will happily work with you in the next big project.
Practice of these workplace etiquette and courtesy lead to job success and promotion as well
as in the success of the team.
16.2.2 Cultural Etiquette: Cultural norms or etiquette vary from country to country, and even
from community to community. There is diversity of social etiquette across cultures. One
has to learn which rules and norms apply to a particular ___location.
Activity
Ask students to share their experiences with culturally divergent people. Whether they felt any
problems? If yes, how did they resolve?
Role of cultural etiquette in promoting team work: We live in a world with a globalized
workforce where many organizations have teams that span different offices, time zones and
continents. It can be challenging for a team leader to manage a culturally diverse team. Even
for a company that operates in one country, the movement of labor across borders means
that cultural diversity is becoming a normal facet of the workplace. Managers and leaders are
facing some of the issues like dealing with cultural differences, language barriers and remote
team members.
The following five tips may help in strengthening the cross-cultural team.
i) Acknowledge and respect cultural differences: Cultural diversity in a team can manifest
itself in different ways: language, culture, behavioral differences due to norms and values,
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and even different meaning attached to words, ideas or actions. So it is important to learn
what those differences are because one’s cultural background informs how we interact
with others.
One way to encourage this understanding of cultural diversity is to discuss cultural
differences in a team meeting where everyone can share their cultural background and
expectations about communication and working style. This can be done in an informal
way through activities such as ice breakers. Select activities where team members get to
learn more about each other through asking questions and sharing about their cultural
backgrounds.
For better understanding of cultural differences students may be asked to visit following
link
https.//www.geert-hofstedee./national-cultural.html.dimensionmodel
(Geert Hofstede’s cultural dimension model)
This model provides a starting point for understanding what drives people from
different cultures, and how we can adapt our working and communication styles to
work better together in a cross-cultural team.
ii) Establish norms for the team: Each team needs to set its own rules and norm
depending on its makeup and other factors that affect collaboration. Issues such as
standard operating procedures for timely replies of email, email/document templates to
ensure clear communication, frequency of team meetings, structure of team reporting
etc. may be considered. Building norms that are specific to a team improves the ease of
collaboration and optimizes team performance.
After establishing the team norms, regularly check in with the team to see how effective
these norms are. Modify the norms that are not working well.
iii) Develop a team identity and outline roles and responsibilities: It is important that
everyone in any team knows what they are working toward especially in a cross-cultural
team. Having a shared goal and a common vision on how to achieve it gives the team
an identity that can unite them and promote teamwork.
Developing a team identity helps in finding commonalities between team members.
Encourage your team to get to know each other in a social context. Personal connections
within the team make it easier to work together.
The common goal broken down into actionable steps and assigning each individual’s
role and responsibilities reduce the chance of misunderstandings. Everyone in the
team knows the importance of their contribution. It sets expectations for what needs
to be done, by who and when. Clarity of each team member’s contribution also makes
it easier to address team performance as a whole.
iv) Over-communicate: Over-communication is a good thing especially with a culturally
diverse team. Most of the time, we take for granted that colleagues or team members
with the same frame of reference or cultural background completely understand what
we say. But team members of a different ethnicity, nationality or background need
extra and clear communication to avoid any misunderstanding.
Use simple and clear language when using electronic communication media, and
check that the other party fully understands what is said. Ask them to rephrase to
confirm their understanding by cultivating an environment where the members can
ask questions and clarify any doubts. Give everyone the bigger picture and the clear
information they need to successfully do their part. This will reduce conflict and team
dysfunction.
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v) Build rapport and trust: A safe environment should be created where the team
members can have better collaboration with each other. Respecting differences,
following through on group norms and having a common goal help build unity within
a team.
It is crucial to provide some time for face-to-face interaction especially for cross-border
or remote teams where employees spend most of the time separate from their team
members. Real life interaction provides nuances such as tone of voice, eye contact and
body language that make communication easier. If meeting in person is not possible,
occasional video calls can help.
vi) Leverage cultural diversity: Having a cross-cultural team presents opportunities for
creativity, innovation and learning from others of a different background. Accept
differences, new perspectives and different ways of doing things. The challenges of
having cross-cultural teams can be handled successfully with sensitivity and respect
for other cultures. Most people understand and accept cultural differences in the
workplace, there is a need to institute a framework that makes it easier to understand
each other and collaborate.
16.2.3 Corporate/Professional Etiquette: An employee needs to follow professional etiquette
to allow others to see that he/she is a polite, civilized coworker who knows how to be nice
and can represent the company in a positive way. This contributes in creating his/her good
image and help in the promotion. Following are the basic professional etiquette rules:
• Always arrive on time.
• Dress appropriately as per the office environment.
• Use appropriate ways of greeting people from different background.
• Never interrupt conversations unless there’s an emergency.
• Remove papers from the copier, fax machine, and scanner after you are finished
with the task.
• Don’t disturb other people unnecessarily while they’re working.
• Praise others for a job well done.
• Never take credit for other people’s work.
• Be friendly to clients, visitors, and guests. Offer them a seat if they have to
wait.
• Use appropriate volume of voice and avoid yelling.
• If someone else is angry, refuse to join in an argument or rant.
• Don’t touch other people’s personal belongings.
• Observe proper etiquette with regard to personal space.
• Keep office correspondence brief and avoid interjecting personal opinions unless
it is necessary.
• Maintain a professional image when decorating your office or cubicle.
Activity
Students may visit a corporate office or any other organization and observe the above corporate/
professional etiquette being practiced by the employees or not. They can also interview the
employees and the managers. A report can be prepared and presented in the class.
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Assessment
1. Written evaluation.
2. Role play: Practice of social and cultural etiquettes during role play in the classroom in
small groups-observation and evaluation by the facilitator and peers.
3. Self reporting: Recording of practicing social etiquettes with friends/peers, seniors, teachers
and family members by maintaining a diary.
4. Evaluation of the report of the visit to any corporate/professional organization to observe
etiquette being practiced by the employees.
References:
1. https://www.thespruce.com/what-is-etiquette-and-why-is-it-important-1216650
2. https://visual.ly/community/Infographics/education/importance-etiquette-lead-successful-
life
3. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2nEvKZ4SG2c
4. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=88zGGAjCh4o
5. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2o_waw6mLvI
6. https://www.etiquettetrainer.com/workplace-etiquette-build-teamwork/
7. https://www.business.com/articles/from-conflict-to-cooperation-building-stronger-cross-
cultural-teams/
8. https://www.bentley.edu/news/7-ways-promote-diversity-workplace
9. https://www.drury.edu/academics/undergrad/business/pdf/rubrics/intercultural
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Objectives:
The objectives of the module are to help learners
• Understand the need for effective internal communication; and
• Describe the tools for effective internal communication.
Expected Outcomes:
By the end of this module the learners shall be able to:
• Use common technology messaging tools that are used in enterprises for flow of
information and transition from command and control to informal communication
during an online/offline team session.
• Actively use and operate online team communication tools: Webinar, Skype, Zoom,
Google hangout and many more.
Module Outlines:
17.1 Internal Communication: Meaning and Need
17.1.1 Meaning
17.1.2 Need for Internal Communication
17.2 Use of Various Channels of Transmitting Information to Team Members including Digital
and Physical
17.1 Internal Communication: Meaning and Need
17.1.1 Meaning: Transmission of information within an organization is known as internal
communication. Effective internal communication plays an important role in proper
functioning of an organization or institution. It is the sharing of the information, knowledge,
ideas, and beliefs between the members of the organization or institution.
Internal communication can be formal or informal. It depends upon the persons to
which one is communicating. The informal or not so formal language is generally used in
communication with the colleagues. The language used in communication with seniors is
formal. The conditions for effective internal communication are:
• There should be open and clear reason for communication.
• There should be understanding of the need of the employees.
• Communication should be consistent and regular.
• Language of communication should be clear, to the point, and brief.
• Two-way communication should be allowed.
• Use of vocabulary should be good.
17.1.2 Need for Internal Communication: Internal communication is very important for the
growth of any organization/institution. The role of internal communication is as follows:
• Increases productivity.
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Assessment
1. Written evaluation.
2. Evaluation of the write up on visit to the organization/institution and presentation in
the classroom. The facilitator may develop criteria with the help of students to assess the
knowledge and learning of skills.
References:
1. https://www.talkfreely.com/blog/internal-and-external-communication
2. https://blog.smarp.com/12-reasons-why-internal-external-communications-go-hand-in-hand
3. https://sproutsocial.com/insights/internal-communications-guide/
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Objectives:
The objectives of the module are to help learners
• Develop essential skills to influence and motivate others.
• Inculcate emotional and social intelligence and integrative thinking for effective
leadership.
Expected Outcomes:
By the end of this module the learners shall be able to:
• Examine various leadership models and understand/assess their skills, strengths and
abilities that affect their own leadership style.
• Create their leadership vision.
Module Outlines:
18.1 Leadership Skills
18.2 Understanding Leadership and its Importance
• What is Leadership?
• Why Leadership required?
• Whom do you consider as an Ideal Leader?
Assessment
1. Written evaluation.
2. Peer Evaluation: A brief case on leadership may be given to the students. The case will be
analyzed by students in groups of 4 members each in duration of 30 minutes. The analysis
submitted by each group on a sheet which may be evaluated by distributing the sheets
among the groups and letting them mark each other’s analysis with guidelines provided by
the faculty/facilitator.
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Expected Outcomes:
By the end of this module the learners shall be able to:
• Demonstrate a set of practical skills such as time management, self-management,
handling conflicts, team leadership, etc.
• Create and maintain an effective and motivated team to work for the society.
Module Outlines:
19.1 Basic Managerial Skills
• Planning for Effective Management
• How to Organize Teams?
• Recruiting and Retaining Talent
• Delegation of Tasks
• Learn to Coordinate
• Conflict Management
From the same list they will then pick equal number of adjectives that describe
the other members of their group.
Each student then places all adjectives in the JOHARI grid.
Students who are willing may be asked to share the findings of the JOHARI window
exercise for them.
H6 A recap of all previous proceedings.
Assessment
1. Written Evaluation.
2. Peer Evaluation: A brief case on conflict/interpersonal effectiveness may be given to the
students. The case will be analyzed by students in groups of 4-5 members each in 30 minutes.
The analysis submitted by each group on a sheet which may be evaluated by distributing
the sheets among the groups and letting them mark each other’s analysis with guidelines
provided by the faculty.
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Objectives:
The objectives of the module are to help learners
• Describe basics of entrepreneurship.
• Nurture a creative and entrepreneurial mindset.
Expected Outcomes:
By the end of this module the learners shall be able to:
• Understand the basics of entrepreneurship and develop business plans.
Module Outlines:
20.1 Entrepreneurial Skills
20.1.1 Basics of Entrepreneurship
i) Meaning of entrepreneurship
ii) Classification and types of entrepreneurship
iii) Traits and competencies of entrepreneur
20.1.2 Creating Business Plan
i) Problem identification and idea generation
ii) Idea validation
iii) Pitch making
H6. Role Play: Let students form three groups- each of the group having at least 4-5
students. The groups will act as
a) Potential venture capitalists/investors;
b) Potential customers; and
c) Members of regulatory agencies.
Ask each student to pitch his/her product in front of the three groups. Let each group
play a serious role full of critical inputs.
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Assessment
1. Written Evaluation.
2. Activity in H6 Role Play can be taken for assessment.
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Expected Outcomes:
By the end of this module the learners shall be able to:
• Inculcate emotional and social intelligence and integrative thinking for effective
leadership.
• Apply the design thinking approach for leadership.
Module Outlines:
21.1 Innovative Leadership and Design Thinking
21.1.1 Innovative Leadership
• Concept of emotional and social intelligence
• Synthesis of human and artificial intelligence
• Why does culture matter for today’s global leaders
21.1.2 Design Thinking
• What is design thinking?
• Key elements of design thinking:
- Discovery
- Interpretation
- Ideation
- Experimentation
- Evolution.
• How to transform challenges into opportunities?
• How to develop human-centric solutions for creating social good?
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Self-Awareness and Control: This talent comprises two separate skills. The self-
awareness component demands intimate and accurate knowledge of one’s self and one’s
emotions. It also demands understanding and predicting one’s emotional reactions
to situations. One who is emotionally competent at self aware is also fully aware
of one’s values and core beliefs and knows the impact and effect of compromising
these core components. The self-control component requires full mastery of being in
control of emotions. Both positive and negative emotions are channeled in the most
productive manner when one controls the emotion versus the emotion controlling
the person. The person with mastery and control of emotions can both anticipate and
plan emotional reactions to maximize effectiveness.
Empathy: Empathy requires the ability to understand how others perceive situations.
This perception includes knowing how others feel about a particular set of events or
circumstances. Empathy requires knowing the perspective of others and being able
to see things from the value and belief system of the other person. It is the ability to
fully immerse oneself in another’s viewpoint, yet be able to remain wholly apart. The
understanding associated with empathy is both cognitive and emotional. It takes into
consideration the reasons and logic behind another’s feelings or point of view, while
also allowing the empathic party to feel the spirit of a person or thing.
Social Expertness: Social expertness is the ability to build genuine relationships
and bonds with others that are based on an assumption of human equality. Social
expertness allows people to genuinely express feelings, even conflict, in a way that
builds rather than destroys relationships. Social expertness also enables a person to
choose appropriate actions based on his or her feelings of empathy. The talent of
social expertness allows caring, support, and concern to show for fellow humans
in all life’s situations. It also demands that one reads social situations for readiness,
appropriateness, and spoken and unspoken norms. Resolving conflict without
compromising core beliefs or values is an important component of social expertness.
High social expertness allows for strong networks on both a professional and personal
level that can readily be enlisted when needed for aid.
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Assessment
1. Written Evaluation.
2. Students can be given individual exercise in design thinking; a panel of faculty can give a
simulated or real life situation and assess the student on his/her creative solution.
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Expected Outcomes:
By the end of this module the learners shall be able to:
• Inculcate ethics and moral values for developing a balanced personality.
• Apply ethical principles in professional and social contexts.
Module Outlines:
22.1 Ethics and Integrity
22.1.1 Learning through Biographies
• What makes an individual great?
• Understanding the persona of a leader for deriving holistic inspiration
• Drawing insights for leadership
• How leaders sail through difficult situations?
22.1.2 Ethics and Conduct
• Importance of ethics
• Ethical decision making
• Personal and professional moral codes of conduct
• Creating a harmonious life
Assessment
1. Written Evaluation.
2. Activity in H6 can be used for assessment wherein 50% weightage each can be given to
assessment by students and that by the facilitator.
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Justification:
Human civilization is known for the values that it cherishes and practices. Across various times and
places, sages, saints and seers, drawing on their experience, developed practices that placed central
importance on values, though the names used by them differed, as their languages varied but the
spirit was same. Universal human values are values that human beings cherish and hold in common
consciously and otherwise in most of the places and times and practice them.
Renunciation is the foundational value. Renunciation or greedlessness has two preconditions: love
for all living beings and absence of selfishness. Renunciation is not self-directed but other-directed
and is for life in all forms and shapes, for welfare of all. Renunciation begins when selfishness ends.
Renunciation to run away from the problems of life is cowardice. Renunciation without action
means parasitic life. Also, service can be practised only when renunciation with action begins.
Unegoistical service is inconceivable without renunciation; and true service is possible only through
love and compassion. Life and death are eternal truths, so is the truth as fact and truth as value.
Truth exists between the two ends of life and death and is to be pursued.
Truth, Renunciation (sacrifice), Love, Compassion and Service are commonly acceptable universal
human values, which at the operation level have been named differently as sincerity, honesty,
righteousness, humility, gratitude, aspiration, prosperity, non-violence, trust, faith, forgiveness,
mercy, peace and so on. These are needed for wellbeing of an individual, society and humanity and
ultimately Peace in the world.
Universal human values are mankind’s deepest moral aspirations and form the foundation of
human culture and lives as individuals and as societies. This module aims at making learners
conscious about universal human values in an integral manner, without ignoring other aspects that
are needed for learner’s personality development.
and finding out own resources, suitable for their learning communities according to their time,
place, class and circumstances. This guidelines is the Panchatantra for facilitators of the life
skills programme. Vishnu Sharma, its author of Panchatantra, was given the task of life skills
enhancement of princes who were dullards and disinterested in learning. He considered their class,
level, requirements and expectations. On the basis of it, he concluded that the narrative discourses
in the form of fables would interest his learners and accordingly constructed fables to impart
lessons and values of life. He succeeded in his task, as they learnt without realizing that they were
learning. All great authors and teachers like Valmiki, Ved Vyasa, Aesop, the Sufi and Bhakta poets,
the Sikh Gurus, Ramakrishna Paramhansa, Swami Vivekanada, Sri Aurobindo, and the Mother
among others used narratives to illustrate and impart values.
Moreover, it has to be borne in mind by the facilitator that the outcome of the course ‘Universal
Human Values’ can best be delivered in a direct and indirect collaborative mode. The outcome
of this course can best be achieved if parents, family members, friends and peers, supported by
psychologists, and social workers, can join the facilitators because the learners are most of the time
with friends and family members.
Objectives:
The objectives of this module are to help learners
• Describe meaning, purpose, and relevance of universal human values.
• Understand the importance of values in individual, social, career, and national life.
• Learn from lives of great and successful people who followed and practised human
values and achieved self-actualisation.
Expected outcomes:
By the end of the course, the learners shall be able to:
• Become conscious practitioners of values.
• Realize their potential as human beings and conduct themselves properly in the ways
of the world.
• Develop integral life skills with values.
• Inculcate and practice them consciously to be a good human being.
• Realise one’s potentials as a human being.
are ignorant. Hence, he needs to oblige them out of pity for them. It is said that Buddha
returned to forest that very moment and meditated all over again. After meditation, he
concluded that he should go and share his knowledge with other members of the society
not out of his ego out of his love for them and consequent compassion because all were his
own people. Such was his love for his people that despite knowing Sanskrit he abandoned it
favour of Pali, a Prakrit or natural language of the people.
Introduction:
• What is love and its forms: love for self, parents, family, friend, spouse, community,
nation, humanity and other beings—living and non-living.
• Love and compassion and inter-relatedness: The facilitator needs to explain
the relationship between love and compassion and other related feelings and
emotions like empathy, sympathy and non-violence.
• Individuals who are remembered in history or in collective memory for practicing
compassion and love: (e.g., Buddha, Christ)
• Narratives and Anecdotes from history, literature including local folklore
Practicing love and compassion:
• What will learners gain if they practice love and compassion? What will learners
lose if they don’t practice love and compassion?
• Sharing learner’s individual and/or group experience(s)
• Simulated Situations
• Case studies
23.2 Truth (Satya) 5 Hours
Truth is eternal and unchanging, as it deals with ultimate and unchanging reality. It is
marked by veracity, honesty and sincerity, purity, accuracy and fairness, fearlessness and
integrity. It may have many facets as subjective or relative truth that why people cling to
‘my truth’ and ‘your truth’ leading to conflict at times. These are perceptions of truth that
change according to experience, age, perspective, culture and belief system. However, when
searching for a lasting truth that withstands relativity, the values of common sense, intuition,
justice, quest for knowledge, spirit of enquiry, and synthesis, are nurtured and enhanced.
Truth involves honesty in thought, speech and action. Subscription to truth leads to just,
happy and healthy relationships at individual and collective levels.
Introduction:
• What is truth? Universal truth, truth as value (arth), truth as fact (saty) (veracity,
sincerity, honesty among others)
• Individuals who are remembered in history for practicing this value (Raja
Harishchandra, Dharmaraj Yudhishthara, Mahatma Buddha, Socrates, Mahatma
Gandhi)
• Narratives and Anecdotes from about truth history, collective memory and
literature including local folklore
Practicing Truth:
• What will learners learn/gain if they practice truth? What will learners lose if they
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don’t practice it? (Mahatma Gandhi’s The Story of My Experiments with Truth)
• Learner’s individual and/or group experience(s)
• Simulated Situations
• Case studies
23.3 Non-Violence (Ahimsa) 5 Hours
Non-violence is a result of restraint from consciously doing any harm through one’s thoughts,
speech or action to any entity—living or non-living. It is a result of practice of all other
values, and its practice would lead to world peace and global harmony. It requires being
sensitive to the fact that there is life in all forms of existence, and they are interconnected.
Violence ranging from bullying to racism, physical harm to individual/s, to wars, apartheid
to acts of terrorism, from killing animals to causing damage to environment is rooted in
prejudice, ignorance, insecurity, fear and greed.
Introduction:
• What is non-violence? Its need. Love, compassion, empathy and sympathy for
others as pre-requisites for non-violence
• Ahimsa as non-violence and non-killing
• Individuals and organizations that are known for their commitment to non-
violence
• Narratives and Anecdotes about non-violence from history, literature including
local folklore
Practicing non-violence:
• What will learners learn/gain if they practice non-violence? What will learners
lose if they don’t practice it?
• Sharing learner’s individual and/or group experience(s) about non-violence
• Simulated Situations
• Case studies
23.4 Righteousness (Dharma) 5 Hours
Righteousness is the practice of propriety and decorum in life. In simple language it is marked
by ‘right conduct’. It covers ethical guidelines, ethical behavior and moral righteousness. Its
essence is covered in the saying: Do good, see good and be good. All cultures stressed on it.
Indian culture revolves around the concept of Dharma which means ‘dharayate ya sa dharam’
(‘what is worth doing or upholding’) in which action is guided by time, place and class.
Introduction:
• What is righteousness?
• Righteousness and dharma, Righteousness and Propriety
• Individuals who are remembered in history for practicing righteousness
• Narratives and Anecdotes from history, literature including local folklore
Practicing righteousness:
• What will learners learn/gain if they practice righteousness? What will learners
lose if they don’t practice it?
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Introduction:
• What is peace? It’s need. Peace, harmony and balance
• Individuals and organizations that are known for their commitment to peace
(Gandhi, United Nations)
• Narratives and Anecdotes about peace from history, literature including local
folklore
Practicing peace:
• What will learners learn/gain if they practice peace? What will learners lose if
they don’t practice it?
• Sharing learner’s individual and/or group experience(s) about peace
• Simulated Situations
• Case studies
23.6 Service (Seva) 3 Hours
When love and compassion for others and willingness to suffer for others out of love takes
the form of action, it becomes service. Love and renunciation unattended by service are not
true values. True love and renunciation are not for self but for others’ sake. Self-directed
renunciation is greed of worst kind. In this manner, the ideals of love and renunciation
and service are interrelated. It is not possible to serve without renunciation or some form
of suffering in terms of personal comforts, material or at least time. This ethos lead us other
ethos of satya (truth), prem (love) and karuna (compassion) that like many cultures, Indian
culture valued much its long history. Service is possible only when one loves others as one’s
own, not as other. The value of service rejects adversarial discourse by transcending the
binary mode of thinking.
Introduction:
• What is service? Forms of service, for self, parents, spouse, family, friend,
community, persons in distress or disaster, nation, humanity and other—living
beings and non-living things.
• Individuals who are remembered in history for practicing this value.
• Narratives and Anecdotes dealing with instances of service from history, literature
including local folklore.
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Practicing service:
• What will learners learn/gain if they practice service? What will learners lose if
they don’t practice it?
• Sharing learner’s individual and/or group experience(s) regarding service.
• Simulated Situations.
• Case studies.
23.7 Renunciation (Sacrifice) Tyag 3 Hours
Stressing on the importance of the value of MahatmaGandhi had singled out the upanishadic
hymn from Ishopnaishad ‘Ten tyakten bhunjitha magradh kasyaswid dhanam’. (‘So we must
enjoy that (world) with tyagbhava (a sense of renunciation), without being consumed by
greed, and act without any attachment.) In other words, karma is the foundation of human
life in this world. Enjoy things provided by nature and earned through action because life
is impossible but enjoyment or consumption without renunciation is the animalistic nature
not human.
The two terms tyag and bhoga may appear to be contradictory but they are so to Indian mind
and reality as well. Bhoga with tyagabhava and tyag with bhogbhava is the root of all human
values and literary values.
Tyaga (renunciation) has two preconditions: love for all living beings and absence of
selfishness. Tyaga is not self-directed but other directed and is for life in all forms and
shapes, for welfare of all (lokasangraha). Only then life becomes a festival. Tyaga begins
when selfishness ends. Also, service is born, when tyaga with action begins. Renunciation
to ward off the problems of life is cowardice. Tyaga without action means parasitic life.
Unegoistical service is inconceivable without tyaga; and true service is possible only
out of (prem) love and (karuna) compassion. Life and death are eternal truths, so is
truth of karma between the two, and meaningful tyaga is invaluable truth, though so
easily livable, of human life. To buttress the point, the lives of Rama, Krishna, Buddha
and Christ illustrate the point, as they are gods because of their renunciation. Rama
renounced the throne of Ayodhya in obedience to his father. Krishna charioteered the
Mahabharata and the Kurukshetra war but did not aspire for even an ounce of empire.
In the recent history, Gandhi’s case in view, as he is revered for his sacrifice with no dint
of greed for power.
Introduction:
• What is renunciation?
• Renunciation and sacrifice. Greed is the main obstruction in the path of
renunciation. Self-restrain and Ways of overcoming greed. Renunciation with
action as true renunciation
• Individuals who are remembered in history for practicing this value. (Rama,
Bhishma, Buddha, Mahavira, Christ, Guru Govind Singh, Bhagat Singh, and
Mahatma Gandhi)
• Narratives and Anecdotes from history and literature, including local
folklore about individuals who are remembered for their sacrifice and
renunciation.
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Assessment
1. Assessment on practical case assignments, individual and group activities, question and
answer sessions.
2. Reflection on panel discussion, invited motivational talks, and field visits to the places/
individuals and institutions that practice one or a set of values.
3. Self assessment: Each student will keep record of his/her daily learning after each session
in the Reflection Journal maintained by them and the Facilitator.
1. Group Task:
a . Prepare a report/presentation/movie/video on your college.
OR
b. Prepare a report/presentation/movie/video on the favorite sports of the group.
i. The group may choose their own task with approval of the facilitator.
ii. In class, the group members will discuss and plan their activities and assign roles
to each member of the group for completing the task.
ii. Presentation of the report/video prepared by each group if there is time; otherwise
the report may be submitted to the facilitator for assessment.
iv. Each group is asked to answer the following questions:
• Did someone practice a value or a set of values? If yes, which values?
• Did someone motivate anyone or others to follow any value? Yes/No and
why?
• What kind of values were adopted by the leader/s as selected by the
learner/s?
The students may be asked to search for a few TED talks on each universal value, or clips
from YouTube, which they find meaningful, and prepare a summary of the talk in 200 words
and submit to the faciliator in the next class. This could be used for assessment of student
learning by the faciliator.
2. Role Play: Select 4 to 5 volunteers from among the students and a situation dealing with any
value is explained. The students will play the role of characters.
3. Study Visits: The facilitator can arrange visits to provide an opportunity to students to see
the individuals or organizations practicing these values and contribute to their own self and
the humanity.
4. Discussion: (Summary of Narrative pertaining to a Values or TED Talk) The facilitator
may ask learners to read out a few summaries submitted by the students and discuss with the
class.
5. Recap of Previous Session(s)/Activities: This activity can be used to reinforce a given
value(s), and also to develop proficiency in retention, imaginative addition, deletion,
substitution of information, constructing a discourse.
6. Writing Autobiography: Learners may be asked to write two pages of their autobiography
at the age of five at the beginning of the course. In the middle of the course, they should be
asked to begin re-writing their autobiography when they were eleven years old. Learners will
write their autobiography again at the end of the course.
7. Peer Evaluation: A brief narrative or case on values may be given to the learners in the
class. The learners in a group of 4 to 6 will analyze the narrative in duration of 30 minutes.
The analysis submitted by each group on a sheet which may be evaluated by distributing
the sheets among the groups and letting them mark each other’s analysis with guidelines
provided by the facilitator.
8. Reflective Journal Evaluation: The journal evaluation may be done in the scale (Needs
improvement, Fair, Good, and Excellent), on the criteria like i) proficiency in language ii)
clarity of thought, iii) quality of discussion of value, iv) evidence of evolution of learner/s;
and v) overall impact.
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1 Self-Awareness
2 Self Esteem
3 Emotional Intelligence
5 Interpersonal Communication
6 Interpersonal Relationships
Truth
Love
Non-Violence
Righteousness
Peace
2 Related Values
Goodness
Generosity
Equality
Sincerity
Gratitude
Perseverance
Humility
5 Leadership Qualities
6 Goal setting
7 Handling Criticism
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