Hacker News new | past | comments | ask | show | jobs | submit login

Huh, that's funny. I've had the same kind of relationship with a woman for the last 2 years, though we dated for a relatively (for me) long time after my divorce. She has kept in touch after I moved. Only recently, I think she is finally ready to "move on" so I've backed off 100%.

It's true. Having someone who cares about you with whom you can relieve personal stress is meaningful. She definitely did that for me, and I hope I did that for her.

On the other hand, I wonder if it has always been like this or there is something unique to our current societal configuration causing the need for these synthetic partnerships.




Aaand... She just texted me. It continues.




Guidelines | FAQ | Lists | API | Security | Legal | Apply to YC | Contact

Search: