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I went to a hackathon a few years ago. At the end of the hackathon, my team member (about 10+ years older than me, I am in my early 30s) asked to contact her on Facebook. I told her I didn't have one, because I didn't. Not even an account that I didn't log-in to. She gave me a weird look, then frowned, as if I was shunning her. My other team member looked shocked as well.

I thought it was weird that if you don't have a Facebook account you're kind of looked at weird now.




About 80% of US, internet-using adults have Facebook accounts. I think her surprise was warranted.

In fact, Id bet that tech-savvy adults aged 20-50 who have Facebook accounts is in the high 90% range.

You are weird for not having one. She isn't weird for expecting you to.

http://www.pewinternet.org/2016/11/11/social-media-update-20...


Would you say he is "weird" for not having one? It's like saying someone is weird for not liking sandwiches. It's just a preference. I have a facebook account but have not logged into it in years. I can't say I feel like I'm missing anything.


I mean weird to be synonymous with atypical. If you don't like sandwiches, that is probably atypical. It isn't a value judgement.


Who doesn't like sandwiches?? I would say that's pretty weird too!


I have a friend who just doesn't "get" why people like sandwiches. So they do exist.


Met a guy in his twenties recently. He wanted to share something with me on FB. Told him I had no account. He replied politely: Oh, yes. I believe the many people in tech do not have one.

He was a smart guy.


I’ve also never opened a FB account. I also used to receive those surprised reactions. For whatever reason, nobody ever reacts that way anymore. To me, that’s one strong indicator that FB doesn’t actually matter.


There was a marked shift at the beginning of this year. I think everyone got political fatigue and Facebook was a channel for exacerbating the overexposure.


For me, I'd been wanting to leave for a while, political fatigue was "the straw the broke the camel's back".


Ha, try WhatsApp. I see more and more people cancelling their Facebook accounts (mostly because they feel like it's become too much of a time-waster), but WhatsApp is the normal way of communication now.

The advantage is that I can still give my number and people will see that I don't have WhatsApp, so at least nobody feels like I'm dissing them.




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