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There is some awesome advice already here so I've little to add, other than:

- Don't expect a normal routine for the first 4 months. Don't expect anything normal for a few years after either.

- Sleep when the baby sleeps! (yeah, been said many many time already, but worth once more)

- Once the baby gets into a routine of regular sleep you can figure out times that work for you. So work at night while the baby sleeps but be sure to have a solid plan to be able to get sleep later...

- Through all this don't forget your wife/partner. Post-partum depression, stress of parenthood, sleep deprivation. You need to make sure you're there for each-other first and foremost. If you can't take care of yourselves, its harder to take care of a baby.

- Take time to enjoy parenthood. My oldest daughter is 2 and a bit now and its like she was just born yesterday and its gone so fast (then again it seems like she's been here forever - go figure)

Congrats!




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