Is there an up to date wiki/guide of a subset of features and implementations that go well together for modern xmpp?

As in these mobile clients for ios and Android, these for desktop and these for cli. With these servers - Together give you in-band registration, ssl-only client/server and server/server, maybe audio/video, file-sharing, server-side history - e2e encryption (I'd settle for otr) - and sane defaults for each client and server to make it difficult to accidentally disable encryption or certificate validation?

Honest question - last time I looked I couldn't find a simple&secure, recommend setup for xmpp.