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My high school experience is specifically one of the reasons I didn’t have kids. I wasn’t going to subject anyone to the shit I experienced in high school.



You probably should talk to someone if it affected you that strongly.


I'm in the same boat, and at almost 50 years of age I never even slightly regret not having children. Now, who should I talk to?


That’s a personal choice that is yours to make.

To me, the notion that school was so horrible that having children if off the table says that was a traumatic experience that hurts to this day. Not healthy to carry that.

I say that as someone who was bullied in elementary school to the point that I was afraid to go outside or have my picture taken. People who cared intervened and helped me overcome that, and anyone in that situation deserves the same.


To me, actually wanting to have kids is something people should seek therapy for. :-P


No one. You made a personal reproductive choice, that should rightly be enough, shouldn't it?




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