I think you might be colored by having used a bad system. It's like all those people who say ORMs are bad and evil, and somehow almost all of them have been forced to use Hibernate :P
ORMs are bad and I say that as a veteran of Hibernate, Entity Framework (almost every version, including code-first and db-first), E Bean, NHibernate and, worst of all by far, ActiveRecord.
Fast enough. You get enough tools to optimize the queries. Keep in mind that Django is still a web framework. You can go nuts with Django and it starts to feel like maybe raw SQL would have been easier but I've rarely encountered this.
In that case it doesn't matter if the ORM is "slow".
Anyway, I disagree. Sometimes the conversion of raw data from the db to Python objects can be the bottleneck for a view. Of course, almost always when this happens it's not really a problem per se as the view is plenty fast enough.
That's mostly false for a nontrivial fraction of queries in most bigger projects. If your queries are doing sane things (not regularly full table scanning for each customer, ...), little things like datetime conversions as the rows are instantiated in Python easily dwarf the cost of the database (depending on your networking setup and exact queries, perhaps just in throughput instead of latency, but Python will the still at least be the "cost" bottleneck for your app).
Yes!! I recently found a 12% overall latency win (_much_ higher in just the datetime code I changed) at $WORK replacing some of the native datetime conversions with something more intelligent, tailored to the specific <redacted work stuff> context at hand.
And yeah, you are just reinforcing the GP's point, because all of those are atrocious.
I am at the ORMs are bad club, but if you try any of the systems that encode the logic paradigm into their interface, they are a completely different kind of beast. (MS has brought some of it into C# with linq so you can use with the Entity Framework. It's not a fully logic system, and has so many attrition points with the Entity Framework that it's mostly not useful at all.)
I'm very familiar with Linq and Linq to SQL. It's as close as any ORM got to being "good enough" and was abandoned by Microsoft very early in its lifecycle. Linq in Entity Framework is a minefield of N+1's and excessive eager loading.
The N+1 problem is solved in iommi (again, I am one of the authors) by simply:
1. keeping a log of queries per request with stack traces
2. at the end, checking if there are N+1 problems
3. print a big warning with example SQL and stack trace to the console
During dev if I miss a prefetch_related/select_related the console will start to print gigantic stack traces telling me where the problem is. I don't have these problems in production because I get alerted to them in dev.
These are not only solvable problems but EASILY solvable problems!
(Also, in iommi tables, most of the times it can automatically figure out and do the prefetch/select related for you, further diminishing the problem)
If you represent your data as objects, you'll create a Book class with an attribute of type Author. If you now want to run the query above, you'd say (in c# likelihood, but not a real Entity query):
Database.Set<Book>().filter(author.id = 5).all()
But that instructs the ORM to fetch the author attribute from all books, and only then filter it by id. So, you will end up running the following query:
select * from book join author on book.author_id = author.id where author.id = 5
There is no reasonable way to represent the difference between this query and the one on top with an object representation. And even though both have exactly the same semantics, databases have been historically bad at optimizing them so the second one can be orders of magnitude slower.
EF Core compiles a query for the entirety of the expression provided. I wonder if it actually outputs select * from book join author on book.author_id = author.id where author.id = 5 as you described - this seems like a pit of failure a framework would work hard to prevent from happening.
You grab all Albums. Then you make a table of the albums with name and artist name. The artist name is in a separate table linked with a foreign key.
So the code might be:
for album in Album.objects.all():
print(album.name, album.artist.name)
Django will need to query from the foreign key ID (album.artist_id) into the Artist table to get the name of the artist. This means every loop step does a query.
So "N+1" because it's N queries (every album) plus 1 (the original "all albums" query).
The fix in Django is to do `Album.objects.all().select_related('artist')`. Then there will be just one query.
Thankfully, not an issue as of today. EF Core has client-side evaluation disabled by default. It was an enormous footgun in EF so to bring that behavior back you have to explicitly opt into it.
ORMs are bad at some things and good at others. Some people are stubborn and feel like if they’re using an ORM then everything has to go through the ORM, for example.
You might want to try (my project) iommi https://docs.iommi.rocks/ It's very different.