"Also, dude: learn to say no." This is horrifyingly bad advice, and in fact I doubt it even acknowledges the problem. It takes time to say "no". Are you telling us to learn "the path of least resistance" in saying "no"? Is this legitimate advice?
At a previous development gig, I would have to learn how to say "no" to at least 5 different types of people. And quite honestly, and candidly, I think this advice is absolute bullshit. I genuinely believe it wholesale ignores all the junk-news that's bubbled up around Zuckerberg's attire at meetings, the joke about Ohanian's suit on Bloomberg TV, etc., the culture of corporatism. If you say "no" enough, you end up like Zuckerberg: An Emperor with no Suit. (Or to put it less abstrusely: "This guy won't play ball.") And if you say it with the force and cavalier quality I think you're thinking: you get fired.
This advice prompts me as if a manager, if it's taken without the gusto of the frustration we're all feeling. And I don't want to be a manager.
Let me put it this way. Are you saying there's a verbal silverbullet that shoots down CEOs, Team Leads, Content Authors, Co-Developers, Designers, IAs, Managers, Testers, Team Members, etc.?
I suppose many others have already said this: _easier said than done_.
At a previous development gig, I would have to learn how to say "no" to at least 5 different types of people. And quite honestly, and candidly, I think this advice is absolute bullshit. I genuinely believe it wholesale ignores all the junk-news that's bubbled up around Zuckerberg's attire at meetings, the joke about Ohanian's suit on Bloomberg TV, etc., the culture of corporatism. If you say "no" enough, you end up like Zuckerberg: An Emperor with no Suit. (Or to put it less abstrusely: "This guy won't play ball.") And if you say it with the force and cavalier quality I think you're thinking: you get fired.
This advice prompts me as if a manager, if it's taken without the gusto of the frustration we're all feeling. And I don't want to be a manager.
Let me put it this way. Are you saying there's a verbal silverbullet that shoots down CEOs, Team Leads, Content Authors, Co-Developers, Designers, IAs, Managers, Testers, Team Members, etc.?
I suppose many others have already said this: _easier said than done_.