that's simply because we live in societies that punish anger, instead of treating it like we treat any other emotion.
"You will not be punished for your anger, you will be punished by your anger."
bu also: "You will not be punished for your anger, you will be punished for making other people angry too."
EDIT: proof is if I say anger is normal, it's not good or bad it's just part of what we are, it's simply that our societies that are based on the fiction of the merciful god - especially in the US - have decided to treat it like a bug in the system, there are some fluctuations in the votes that this comment receives.
If I said the same thing about sadness or fear or joy or surprise, nobody would have found it controversial.
Even though sadness kills a lot of people every year (and fear makes people angry, many angry people are simply scared).
Sure, some people make a career out of it. Radio hosts (now mostly moving online). But they're the "safe outlet" for people to listen to who do not get to express anger themselves because of punishment. The last 3 or 4 years we've even seen the creation of new slang to punish angry people ("Karens"). Police are ever more ready to truly, in the proper sense of the word, punish those who are doing little more than just being angry.
I would think that if we could easily quantify anger, then measure protests over the years, we'd discover that as time goes on they get less angry. Hell, some of them today seem almost depressed and despondent.
Maybe punishing anger is a good thing. But we shouldn't pretend we're not doing it.
punish here means it is widely considered a bad trait, that must be expelled, like a demonic possession. If you are angry, there's something wrong with you, it can't possibly be that there are often times good reasons to be angry.
Anger plays a big role in what we humans are, just like fear, sadness or joy.
> A lot of people make a career out of anger
A lot of people make careers out of being good at killing or at criminal behavior in general, doesn't mean that societies encourage it.
"You will not be punished for your anger, you will be punished by your anger."
bu also: "You will not be punished for your anger, you will be punished for making other people angry too."
EDIT: proof is if I say anger is normal, it's not good or bad it's just part of what we are, it's simply that our societies that are based on the fiction of the merciful god - especially in the US - have decided to treat it like a bug in the system, there are some fluctuations in the votes that this comment receives.
If I said the same thing about sadness or fear or joy or surprise, nobody would have found it controversial.
Even though sadness kills a lot of people every year (and fear makes people angry, many angry people are simply scared).