> working overtime when you're remote is YOUR choice.

I'm not sure of what part of industry you're coming from. For me, it's backend web services + data pipelines for a large corporation

Often overtime work is expected. Deployments always happen late in the evening because of there's a diurnal traffic pattern. Oncall is unavoidable and the expectation they have is that regardless of when you get paged, you have to wake up and respond to it