It's cool that we can largely "strike out" link level wiretapping from our threat models but it just means attackers move on to the endpoints. I have a wonderfully private link to google, my bank and my crypto exchange but all of those are coerced to report everything I do.
The link is only as strong as it's weakest... link? Anyway, given the structure of internet, I wouldn't say it is O(N*M), more like O(the number of major ISPs).